FAQs

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Is there a dress code for the wedding day?

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Yes, red cocktail attire. We ask ladies to join us in wearing red - an auspricious (lucky) color in Asian culture. Typically, cocktail attire for ladies means midi to full length dresses. Gentlemen are NOT expected to wear red suits :). We ask gentlemen wear neutral (gray, blue, black, etc.) cocktail attire and are open to join in the red theme in their accessories! Often this looks like suits or blazers with slacks/trousers. No jeans. Tie is optional. Please see the Pinterest board as inspiration, but keep in mind April in Texas should be on the warm end. https://pin.it/44oBmkF5z

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Are there any other dress code details for Friday Wedding I should know about?

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Red truly is the main event for ladies! To keep with tradition, please abstain from white. Patterns and texture are a fun way to play with the color theme. You’re also welcome to pair it with neutrals or metallics, but we kindly ask that ladies outfit stays within the red family in any elegant shade—such as scarlet, crimson, burgundy, or cherry.

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Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?

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Our wedding celebration includes two special days: a Traditional Tea Ceremony and Welcome Party on Thursday, April 23rd, followed by our Wedding Ceremony and Reception on Friday, April 24th. For complete details and additional information, please refer to the Schedule tab or FAQs below

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What is a traditional Vietnamese tea ceremony?

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The Vietnamese tea ceremony, or Lễ Trà, is a traditional event in which both families formally meet, exchange gifts, and honor ancestors. It symbolizes the couple’s union and the joining of two families. It focuses on family, ancestral respect, and the symbolic presentation of gifts. During this, the groom’s family presents red-lacquered trays (tráp) containing symbolic items—such as tea, fruit, betel leaves, wine, and cake—to the bride’s family. These gifts represent respect, sincerity, and goodwill and traditionally signify the groom’s readiness to marry. Afterwards, the couple asks blessings from ancestors and elder family members by kneeling or bowing offering and serving tea in a demonstration of gratitude, humility, and unity. In return, the family members receiving tea offer blessings & advice for the new couple. The Tea Ceremony will be the kickoff to our Welcome Party. We invite family and friends to join and celebrate the wedding celebrations.

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What are lì xì, traditional red envelopes?

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In Vietnamese culture, a lì xì—a red envelope with money—is a traditional way of offering blessings and good fortune to recipients - in this case, the newly married couple. It’s completely optional and given in the spirit of celebration and well-wishes. We'll have some available at the wedding. Please hang onto them until chào bàn (see below!).

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What is chào bàn?

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During the reception, the couple will take part in a Vietnamese tradition called chào bàn, which means ‘greeting the tables.’ They will visit each table to thank guests personally for being here and to share a moment with everyone. It’s a way of showing gratitude, offering blessings, and celebrating together. Now onto the fun part - the chào bàn games! To "earn" their lì xì, you can challenge the couple in a fun game or activity. This can be a rock-paper-scissors game, arm wrestle match, or simply having a toast with the couple.

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Are children invited?

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Children are welcome to join us at the rehearsal dinner. However, our wedding ceremony & reception on Friday will be an adults-only event. We hope you enjoy a relaxed evening out! If you need help finding childcare in the DFW area, please reach out to Brenda or Connor.

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Can I bring a date?

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To keep our wedding celebrations intimate, your online RSVP will notate invited individuals. Please reach out to Brenda or Connor if there is any confusion.

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Do we have a registry?

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Your presence is truly the greatest gift. In lieu of a traditional registry, we’ve created a cash fund to support our next chapter together. For guests that would like to gift in person, please see below for lì xì and chào bàn to join in on the fun.

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Is there parking at the venue?

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Yes, free parking is available at our wedding venue. For guests traveling from out of town, we also recommend rideshare services like Uber and Lyft as convenient transportation alternatives. With many out of town guests, we encourage guests to plan their transportation in advance to ensure a smooth arrival.