First photo together (didn't know each other): March 19, 2016 First met at "the lake": August 2016 Cubs win the World Series: November 3, 2016 First date: August 2017 Meet the families: November 2017 Brian survives his first St. Patrick's day with Ellie's family: March 17, 2018 Murphy comes home: August 16, 2019 Move back to Chicago: October 5, 2021 Brian proposes: October 9, 2021 We get married!: July 29, 2023