terra & ben
FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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To help us with our planning, please RSVP as soon as possible. However, our deadline is January 10th, 2026. If we do not receive your RSVP by this date, we cannot make exceptions and will have to mark you as a "no" as our head count in very important for planning purposes. We hope you can understand! ♡
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Can I bring a plus one?
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Due to limited venue capacity, we ask that only invited guests attend our wedding festivities. You will find the details about your party size, including whether it includes a plus one, on your invitation. We truly appreciate your understanding and can't wait to celebrate with you!
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Are children allowed at the wedding?
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We have chosen to make our special day an adults-only celebration to ensure that all guests, especially parents, can fully immerse themselves in the joy of the occasion. We hope this advance notice means you are still able to join us for our big day! Your understanding means the world, and we can't wait to celebrate with you!
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Where should I stay?
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We have organized a hotel room block for out-of-town guests. Please see the "Travel" section of this website for more information. Raleigh is also very AirBnB friendly if you would prefer to go that route!
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How do we get to the venue??
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We encourage all guests to use either Uber or Lyft to get to and from Ajja as there are very few parking spots available. Because of how close Ajja is to all things downtown, your ride shouldn't be any more than 10 minutes max!
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How should we dress for the big day?
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The dress code is ~dressy~ casual. To get a better idea of what this means, take a look at this Pinterest board: https://pin.it/26AG2qoL1 However, no flip flops or jeans, please ♡
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Do you have a wedding registry?
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Our wedding registry info can be found on this website once formal invitations are sent out! :)
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Is this a dry wedding?
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Heck no. But NA options will be available!!