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We're looking forward to celebrating with you!! Circle back here in the near future for more travel/lodging info!
We're looking forward to celebrating with you!! Circle back here in the near future for more travel/lodging info!

terra & ben

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The Wedding Website of terra atwood and ben lahm
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When should I RSVP by?

Answer

To help us with our planning, please RSVP as soon as possible. However, our deadline is November 30th, 2025. If we do not receive your RSVP by this date, we cannot make exceptions and will have to mark you as a "no". With the holidays being quite a busy time of year, we are asking for responses a little bit earlier than usual for planning purposes—we hope you can understand! ♡

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Can I bring a plus one?

Answer

Due to limited venue capacity, we ask that only invited guests attend our wedding festivities. You will find the details about your party size, including whether it includes a plus one, on your invitation. We truly appreciate your understanding and can't wait to celebrate with you!

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Are children allowed at the wedding?

Answer

We have chosen to make our special day an adults-only celebration to ensure that all guests, especially parents, can fully immerse themselves in the joy of the occasion. We hope this advance notice means you are still able to join us for our big day! Your understanding means the world, and we can't wait to celebrate with you!

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Where should I stay?

Answer

We are currently working on getting a hotel block to allow for a convenient stay for out of town guests. More info to come in the near future! If you have any questions, please text Ben or Terra! :)

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How do we get to the venue??

Answer

We encourage all guests to use either Uber or Lyft to get to and from Ajja as there are very few parking spots available. Because of how close Ajja is to all things downtown, your ride shouldn't be any more than 10 minutes max!

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How should we dress for the big day?

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The dress code is ~dressy~ casual. To get a better idea of what this means, take a look at this Pinterest board: https://pin.it/26AG2qoL1 However, no flip flops or jeans, please ♡

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Do you have a wedding registry?

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Our wedding registry info can be found on this website once formal invitations are sent out! :)

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Is this a dry wedding?

Answer

Heck no. But NA options will be available!!

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