by all means! If your invitation says "and family" then yes! Come party with us! *Please include all family members in RSVP amount. a small child or infant who does not require a seat does not need to be included in the RSVP count (but we want you to bring their cuteness all the same).
No. Our midday wedding and reception will include heavy appetizers to keep you munching throughout our party, but will not include a full meal.
If your invitation says "and guest" then yes. If not, we would prefer just you came.
Dress to casual dress. It is a party after all!
No, your presence is gift enough for us!