We met when he showed up in my apartment one night. It was a sorority sister's birthday and we all met at my place to travel together. Gary knew some of the guys that were going and showed up as we were getting ready to leave. I turn around and this stranger is standing in front of me. "Who are you and what are you doing in my apartment??", I say. He stares at me, finally finds his voice and introduced himself. We went on to have one of the best "not" first dates and the rest is history.