FAQs

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What should I wear?

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We would love to see our friends and family get dressed up for our big day! The bride doesn't believe in being overdressed so, ladies, semiformal or cocktail attire is appreciated (think dresses, jumpsuits, skirts or dress slacks). The wedding is outside, so choose your footwear accordingly. In true Roy fashion, cowboy attire is welcomed for the guys. Sport coats are also a great addition. It can get chilly at night, so don't forget a coat!

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Can I bring a date?

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Due to space, we are only able to accommodate plus ones explicitly mentioned on your invitation. Please RSVP with only the guests listed on your invitation.

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Are kids welcome?

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They are absolutely welcome to celebrate with us! Please note, though, that there will be an open bar, as well as a pond at the venue. If they're joining us, please RSVP for them as well.

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When do I need to RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by April 1, 2025. You can either mail back the RSVP card that is included with your invitation, OR RSVP here on our website under the RSVP tab.

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What should I do if I can't make it?

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You will be missed dearly! Please RSVP "no" as soon as possible so we can plan accordingly.

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Where should I fly into?

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If you are joining us from out of state, welcome to California! We recommend flying into San Jose or Monterey.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Please visit the "Travel" tab for more information and hotel links. Our venue also allows guests to camp out, so you are also welcome to bring your living quarters (please note that there is limited parking).

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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We kindly request that you keep your phones away and silenced, BUT we understand being excited. If you do choose to take pictures, please keep our photographer in mind. She is wonderful and will be diligently capturing the best moments for all to enjoy. After the ceremony, feel free to snap away and don't forget to share with us!