FAQs
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How do I RSVP?
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You can click the RSVP tab, next to the FAQ tab, and RSVP any time.
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When is my RSVP due?
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Please RSVP no later than 3/1/2026.
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What if I don't RSVP in time?
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If you do not RSVP by 3/1/2026, you will be marked as 'not attending'. We would love to celebrate with you; however, we have to provide an exact guest count to our vendors and cannot accept late RSVPs.
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What should I do if I cannot make it?
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You will be dearly be missed! If you cannot attend our wedding, please indicate 'Not Attending' on your RSVP so we can plan accordingly. If you have already RSVP'd 'Attending' but find that you will not make it, please notify us as soon as you are aware.
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What do I wear to the Ceremony?
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Formal Black Tie We respectfully request that all guests attend in traditional black tie attire, with all garments in black. Gentlemen are asked to wear black tuxedos with a white shirt; ladies in formal black evening wear. Sequins are okay, but please, no color.
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Can I take photos at the ceremony?
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Out of respect for the moment and our wishes, we kindly ask that you refrain from using phones, cameras, or other devices during the ceremony. Our professional photographer will capture every detail. Once the ceremony is over, feel free to take as many pictures as you would like and don't forget to share them with us — we look forward to sharing those moments with you.
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How do I get there?
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We recommend arriving in Paris a few days prior to the wedding to adjust to the time zone and enjoy the city at your leisure. From Paris, guests may either take a domestic flight or the high-speed train to Bordeaux. The train offers a smooth and scenic journey through the French countryside. Alternatively, guests who prefer to fly directly may arrive at the Bordeaux–Mérignac Airport, located approximately one hour from the château. We kindly request that guests arrange private transportation or hire a car service for the weekend; however, we will be providing 1 shuttle for arrivals and departures to and from the chateau. We will have the shuttle pick you up at the back of the Bordeaux train station on Friday 5/22 at 1500hr. *Please note this is a little over an hour ride to the Château, so please plan accordingly.
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I would like to book transportation on my own. Who can I contact?
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Our wedding planners have passed along a reputable car service. You can book directly though them via website. https://www.albtaxi-vtc.fr
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What should I wear outside of the ceremony?
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Friday's gathering will be a Garden Party. Ladies, we encourage florals and color! Gentlemen, we know your wives will dress you according to their outfits. But if not, think linen, light blues, and neutral colors. Lets keep it fresh! Kindly bring a swimsuit should you wish to join us for the poolside celebration on Sunday. We will be doing a Pizza Party to follow so comfy clothes encouraged! *Please note with garden party, I understand there will be dresses with white backgrounds and florals. That is totally okay, as long as the florals are vibrant and take over most of the white!
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Can I bring my Children?
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In order to allow all guests, including parents, a weekend of relaxation and celebration, we respectfully request no children at the wedding.
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Will there be an open bar?
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Yes! The drinks are on us all weekend. Please drink responsibly.
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Do you have a Registry?
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Your presence is the greatest gift we could ask for, especially as we celebrate away from home. While gifts are not expected, we’ve created a small registry for those who have kindly expressed interest.
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Can I leave the Château?
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Yes, you can leave at any time. There is a town nearby that you will drive through on the way to the château that has everything from a pharmacy to McDonalds! There are also several wineries nearby. Please be sure to arrive back in time for the ceremony if you would like to venture out that day.
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Is there parking at the Château?
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Yes, there is plenty of parking!
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What is the schedule?
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5/22 4pm - Guest Check-in/Drink Service begins 7pm - Welcome Party/Food Service 10pm - Move to Jazz Bar 12am - Jazz Bar Closes 5/23 8am-10am - Breakfast in dining room 12:30pm - Lunch snacks available in Kitchen 4:30pm - Welcome Drinks 5pm - Ceremony 5:30pm - Reception Drinks/Hors d'oeuvres 7:30pm - Reception Dinner 9pm - Cake Cutting/First Dance 12am - Move to Jazz Bar 2am - Jazz Bar Closes 5/24 10:30-12:30pm - Brunch 12:30 - 5pm - Pool Party 5pm-7pm - Pizza Party 5/25 8am-10am - Breakfast in dining room 11am - Check-out
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What are the costs associated with the weekend?
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Stephen and I have thoughtfully planned a relaxing and stress-free weekend for our guests. Your only responsibility will be arranging your transportation to and from the wedding. *Please note, there will be a city tax of €10 and there will be a refundable €200 security deposit at check-in per room.
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Will Meals be provided over the weekend?
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Yes, all meals will be provided. If you have any dietary restrictions, please kindly note that within your RSVP so we can communicate that to our chef.
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Do I need a special License to drive if I would like to rent a car?
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No, you do not. Your US license will be sufficient to drive in France. Please insure your insurance covers internationally. If Stephen can do it, you can do it.
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Do I need anything special for my electronics?
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We suggest purchasing a travel adapter. Please note, your hair tools may not work as it is on a different voltage than the US.
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Will my accommodations be private?
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Yes, all rooms are numbered so there is no confusion and come with an ensuite bathroom.
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What are the ceremony food options?
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For your starter, you can select between the two options below. Tuna Niçoise - Fresh Tuna Niçoise salad with quail eggs, cherry tomatoes, new potatoes, black olives and green beans with a herb vinaigrette Plat Antipasti - Plate of vegetarian antipasti, including marinated mozzarella balls, olives, artichokes, capers, goat's cheese, sun blush tomatoes and roasted peppers. For dinner your options are: Bouf Bourguignon Slow cooked beef with red wine and mushrooms paired with a potato pavé and seasoned green beans Cabillaud Roti avec des tomatoes sechee au soleil, enrobe en parma pesto - Baked cod with sun-dried tomatoes and basil paired with a potato pavé and seasoned green beans Desert will be a poached pear cheesecake with a pear coulis.