FAQs

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If you have any hesitation or biblical beliefs that will restrict you from attending our special day we totally understand. Please don't feel pressured to RSVP. A respectful decline is greatly appreciated.

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Thanks for your honesty but this will be a day full of love and celebration and we would hate for anyone to be uncomfortable. We love you the same.

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When should I RSVP by?

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RSVP's will begin August 1, 2025. Please do so ASAP to secure your seat and allow us to have an ideal headcount sooner than later.

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes! Drinks are on us but the hangover is on you! Please drink responsibly.

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What if I can no longer attend?

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If you've already RSVP'd "yes" to our wedding and then realize you can't attend, the best course of action is to notify us as soon as possible and explain your situation briefly and sincerely. A phone call is generally considered the most personal and appropriate way to do this, but a text or email is also acceptable. Sending a nice gift is always a good closing. Most importantly please notify us asap.

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What time should I arrive for the ceremony?

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The ceremony will begin at [6:00pm] sharp, followed by cocktail hour and the reception, which is anticipated to wrap around [12:00am]. Please arrive by [5:30pm] as doors will be shut and NO ONE will be allowed to enter after [5:45pm].

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What if I dont RSVP in time?

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Unfortunately, the guest list will be finalized and we won't be able to include you this time. The deadline for the RVSP will be October 15th 2025. NO EXCEPTIONS.

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What colors can the guest wear?

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ABSOLUTELY NO WHITE! We kindly ask that you wear ALL BLACK. (Excluding mens white dress shirts)

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What is the dress code for the wedding?

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Our dress code is black-tie. We ask that men wear a tuxedo or suit and tie and women an evening gown or a midi- or knee-length cocktail dress would be appropriate.

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Are plus 1's and kids allowed at the wedding?

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We are not allowing additional plus-ones to our wedding, as we'd like to keep the guests as small as possible. The name of every guest invited to attend is clearly listed on your invitation and no additional guests can be accommodated. We love your children, but due to space restrictions, we cannot make additional accommodations.

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Do you have a wedding hashtag?

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Yes #CheersToTheChristophers

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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This is an Unplugged Ceremony. Guests are invited to be truly present during this special moment. Please turn off cell phones and put down cameras. The photographer will capture the look of the moment — Guests are encouraged to capture how it feels in their hearts and without the distraction of technology

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What if I cant make it to the wedding?

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You will be missed! If you cannot attend our wedding please indicate your regrets on our RSVP tab / Invite so we can plan accordingly.