FAQs
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When is the RSVP deadline?
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Kindly RSVP by Aug. 8, 2025! Any invitations not responded to by this time will be assumed not attending. Thank you for your understanding!
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How do I RSVP?
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Go to our RSVP tab here on the website and type in your name!
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What if I don't know if I can make it? Can I tentatively RSVP?
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We totally understand the circumstances of traveling, but if you're not sure you can make it, pretty please don't RSVP.
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I'm no longer able to make it, what should I do?
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Please let us know asap! We have a final headcount and payment due two weeks before the wedding. After that, we're locked in!
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Can I bring a plus one?
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We have a very large guest list and had to make some hard decisions. If you weren't allocated a plus one on your invitation, then no, we didn't count a plus one for you. But we're excited to see you!
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Are kids allowed?
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We love your kiddos, but we're having an all-adult wedding. Down for a parents night out?
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What time should I arrive?
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We're starting promptly at 5 pm, so we'd recommend arriving around 4 or 4:30 to make sure you're seated. Not from Cali? We're known for our traffic. Plan ahead and may the odds be ever in your favor!
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Do you have a hotel block?
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No, we did not opt for a hotel block. Check our travel tab for some tips on where to stay or what to do while you're in town!
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Is there a shuttle?
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No, we aren't providing transportation, but there's plenty of parking and it's an easy spot to catch an Uber.
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What do I wear?
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Cocktail attire! Here's a good guide: https://www.theknot.com/content/cocktail-wedding-attire
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What's on the menu?
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We're having a buffet, so no need to send in your food choices or allergens. There will be lots of options.
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What kind of bar are you having?
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We're having an open, well bar. Non-alcoholic drinks and alcoholic drinks made with well alcohol are provided for free. Please bring cash if you'd like to upgrade from well to premium alcohol and to tip the bartenders!
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Do I need to bring cash?
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There's not a super need for cash, but you can bring it if you'd like to: 1) Participate in the money dance! (but we're doing Venmo and Zelle too) 2) Tip your bartenders or 3) Purchase an upgraded alcoholic beverage (we're having an open, well bar)
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Is everything in the same location?
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Yes, the ceremony and reception are in the same location!
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We know you live in Washington — Are you accepting gifts? Do you have a registry?
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Yes, we're happy to accept gifts and cards in-person, but since we live out of state, we'd much prefer a gift mailed to our home to cut down on shipping. Check out our registry tab here on the website for some ideas, or a contribution to our home fund is welcome as well!