FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Official invitations with full details will be sent soon, including food selections. Once you receive your invitation, please RSVP (even if it's a no!) by September 30, 2026.

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Can I bring a date?

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All out-of-state (NY/NJ) single guests are welcome to bring a plus one, whether a friend, partner, date, or family member. Your invitation will indicate how many seats are saved for you. Please reach out with any questions!

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Is there a dress code?

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Our dress code is "Upstage the Brides"! Please come in your brightest and boldest looks that break all the traditional wedding guest guidelines. We want camp, queer, and out-of-the-box outfits, with nothing off limits. Stay true to you, but be the most YOU that you can be! If you really want to make a scene, feel free to come in your wedding dress (yes, we mean it)! While this is a Halloween wedding, we're looking for extravagant fashion rather than costume. However, children are more than welcome to dress in costume. Check out our Pinterest board for ideas! https://pin.it/5jlIffDJ8

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Certainly! The main meal will be buffet-style BBQ with sides and a salad bar along with a dessert table and both alcoholic and non-alcoholic drinks. If you need any adjustments, please do not hesitate to let us know.

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Are you registered? Where?

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Our registry is right here on our website, and we so appreciate any and all contributions to our new life together, including cash to go toward our honeymoon or other fun experiences! However, your presence is a gift to us, so please feel no obligation to purchase a physical gift if you are not able.