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Is there a dress code?

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Our wedding has a black-tie dress code. We kindly ask that gentlemen wear a tuxedo or formal suit, while ladies are encouraged to wear a floor-length gown paired with formal shoes. Please be aware that white dresses are not permitted at the wedding, and attendees wearing them will be will be politely requested to leave.

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What if I am late to the ceremony?

Answer

All guests that are not seated by the start of the ceremony may wait in the grand lobby where champagne will be served.

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May I take photos during the ceremony?

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As we look back on our wedding photos, we cherish the thought of seeing your joyful expressions, not your screens and devices. To preserve the beauty of our ceremony without phones and gadgets in the background, we have hired a professional photographer. Please refrain from using your phones and cameras during the event. Remember, everyone is kindly asked to adhere to this request without exception.

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Can I bring a guest (plus one)?

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Only those directly named in the wedding invitation or their specified plus one are permitted to attend the wedding. If your invitation does not specify a plus one, kindly note that no extra guests are permitted.

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Are children allowed at the wedding?

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No child under 12 years old will be allowed to attend the wedding. We will be making group childcare arrangements for out of state family.

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Are pets allowed at the wedding?

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While we both love animals, no pets will be permitted at the wedding.

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Am I expected to tip staff?

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You are welcome to tip bar staff and valet for their services, other staff will be compensated by us. Staff are paid professionals and human beings, not servants, so treat them with respect and dignity.

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Can I request specific music?

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We trust our Dj to put together a mix of music to keep everyone on the dancefloor.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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The culinary team at our venue is committed to prioritizing the safety and comfort of guests with allergies, dietary restrictions, and religious exemptions. Kindly let us know about your dietary requirements when you RSVP.

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Is there transportation to and from the hotel to the wedding venue?

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Yes! A shuttle will be running from the Westin Governor Morris to The Meadow Wood. Please visit the "Travel" section of our wedding website for more information.

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When Should I book my hotel room if I decide I'd like to stay after the wedding?

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On our wedding day, which falls on a busy weekend, accommodation options are expected to be in high demand. To ensure you don't miss out on securing a room, we recommend making your reservations early for a comfortable stay.

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