We have decided it best to keep babies out of the equation for disruption purposes. So, we ask for no babies at the ceremony (under 2). All other children are welcome, just attend to them if they get noisy in a respectable/timely manner. Thanks!
We have decided against having alcohol for financial and personal reasons.
We want everyone comfortable, it will be hot. We say business casual but colorful. Not suit and tie but not t-shirts either. Look nice but please be comfortable.