10:45 am
We are glad we can offer a virtual option to attend our wedding ceremony for those not able to join us in person. The zoom event will begin early to allow for any technical difficulties. See you soon!
11:00 am
*You are our closest friends & family. We love you & we love your support. But, we need to talk about what support looks like for us. There is a point in the service when you'll be asked to stand and support us as a couple - in the good times and, more importantly, in the hard times. And these are the hard times - for queer folx, persons of color, those with disabilities, immigrants, & many more.
And here, we will be specific. The Trump administration perpetuates and supports white supremacy, misogyny, and the oppression of persons on the margins. If you voted for Trump in 2016/plan to do so in 2020, we do not believe you can stand for us at our ceremony and say you love us and will support us. For us, if you do not actively stand for us and those on the margins when it matters most, in how you vote, love, and act, then you cannot stand for us with integrity at our ceremony. So, we are asking, if you are one of those persons, to reach out to us personally before you rsvp. We want to have an honest conversation with you. We want to be in relationship with you and a characteristic of good relationships is the willingness to have hard conversations. We are truly looking forward to having these conversations and want you to know how much it means to us that you trust us enough to be in real & authentic relationship with us. If you are ready to rsvp, please continue.