FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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July 10th, 2026!

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Can I bring a guest or kids?

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We wish we could include everyone, but our guest list is limited to those specifically listed on Zola’s RSVP page, as we’ve carefully planned seating and headcount with our venue. We hope parents can use this as a date night—the party will go well past little ones’ bedtimes, and we’re aiming for zero tantrums and only happy tears!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please come dressed in your Sunday best and be seated in the Church by 9:45 AM.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes, both the church and reception venue offer ample on-site parking for all guests.

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Will there be a chance to chat with the newlyweds?

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Definitely! We’re planning a dedicated “Meet & Greet” receiving line at the start of the reception, where we'll be at the photo backdrop near the entrance from 4:15 to 5:15 PM. At Vietnamese weddings, it’s traditional for the couple to visit each table to greet guests, share a toast, take photos, and accept envelopes of well-wishes. With over 30 tables, that can take all night, and it’s not easy for us to weave through the room to find each table’s speaker! To keep the tradition alive in a more fun and relaxed way, we’ll greet our grandparents’ tables in the traditional style, then invite everyone else up, table by table, for photos and personal greetings on the stage. Feel free to bring your drink and any envelopes if you didn’t drop them in the card box! We designed it this way to honor tradition while making sure we actually get to party with y'all!

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What should I wear for the reception?

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Dress Code: Formal Attire Our wedding colors will cover matcha green, coffee brown, and terracotta orange—so bring your own pops of color to complete our cozy café vibe! Dress to impress, but keep it weather-friendly. Ladies: Please avoid white, ivory, cream, or champagne tones. Think mid-calf cocktail dresses, floor-length evening gowns, dressy jumpsuits, or chic pant/skirt sets. Gentlemen: Wear suits or button-downs with dress pants or khakis. Ties are encouraged but optional.

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes! It’s a fully hosted open bar - no tip jar, no awkwardness. We’ve already covered the gratuity for our bartenders, so feel free to order whatever you want, as often as you want, until 10 PM. Cheers!

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How can we stay hydrated?

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We've got you! There'll be a self-serve water and lemonade station at the bar so you can stay hydrated all night without waiting in line.

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Are there any cultural traditions I should know about?

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Yes! Our celebration blends Vietnamese and Western wedding customs. There'll be a receiving line for photos, family-style dining, and greetings throughout the evening. Well-wishes and gifts are traditionally shared in envelopes to express support for the newlyweds. Early in the reception, our MC will formally present and acknowledge our families. You’ll also experience familiar Western moments throughout the evening, including cocktail hour, a grand entrance, first dance, parent dances, speeches, games/activities, cake cutting, and open dancing.

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What's the dinner situation going to be?

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Vietnamese weddings are celebrated with a multi-course banquet, where each dish carries a wish for the couple - abundance, unity, longevity, harmony, and a sweet life together. Each course arrives one at a time and is placed on a shared turntable so everyone can reach their favorite dishes and savor the meal at their own pace. We invite you to help yourself, rotate the turntable as needed, and serve one another throughout the meal. Sharing each course in this way embodies the heart of Vietnamese hospitality - community, connection, and celebrating together.