We meet on an on-line dating app and official hung out for the first time on Dec 24th 2015. That night Gary asked me "what r you doing tomorrow", I replied "going to a movie and dinner". He then stated he would like to take me out after a prior Christmas lunch commitment, he also told me he had lost his phone, so me being the pessimist I was thought, I will never see this guy again. The Next day int he early afternoon I did get a text from Gary telling me his schedule and when he would be at my house to pick me up for our first Official date, & the rest is history as they say. Interestingly enough, I later learned that the Christmas lunch he attended on that day, He walked in got a plate, sat down ate in 15 minutes, got up put his plate in the sink, and then turned to everyone and said " thanks for lunch, sorry i cant stay, I have a date, I have to go" (melted my heart to hear)