How we met (Incase some of y’all were wondering) As unromantic as it sounds, Xavier and I actually met online! I was living in Wichita Falls at the time and he was (still is) in Altus Oklahoma. We matched on the site and we started talking, long story short, he asked me on a date. The day of the date he drove one and half hours to take me to a dinner and a movie! (Talk about impressive) We went on a few more dates but then I had to move back to Dallas to go to school. We both knew we REALLY liked each other but the distance (almost 4 hours) was a lot. To my surprise, Xavier drove down to see me almost two month straight just to take me out! We officially started dating June 2016. It took some time but we finally found a way to workout our distance relationship to fit both of our busy lives! Fast forward two years later and here we are engaged and planning our March wedding. Ideally, we had our hearts set on a later month like May or even August, but we found out not too long ago that his deployment window is from April to October of 2019. There’s a chance he might not deploy but we’re playing it safe and going for March! That just makes us a little bit closer to marrying each other!