FAQs

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What is the dress code for the wedding?

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Our dress code is formal attire. Examples for women can be a midi or floor length dress or jumpsuit, and for men this can be a dark colored matching suit with a tie or bow tie. Tuxedos are not necessary, but welcomed if you would like to wear one.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Our wedding is strictly RSVP only, therefore we will not be able to accommodate additional guests beyond those specifically named on your invitation. We appreciate your understanding.

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What time should I arrive at the wedding ceremony?

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We recommend that guests arrive at least 15-30 minutes early to ensure everyone is seated prior to the start of the ceremony which will begin promptly at 12pm.

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Will the cocktail hour immediately follow the wedding ceremony?

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No. Our wedding ceremony at St. Matthew will end around 1pm and cocktail hour at El Paso Country Club will begin at 5pm. There will be some downtime in between, feel free to leave the ceremony venue and entertain yourselves during this time. Leave room for cocktails and appetizers when you return! For our out-of-town guests, check out the "Things to Do" section to see some of our favorite spots to eat, drink, and explore while you pass the time.

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Will the cocktail hour and reception be held indoors or outdoors?

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Both the cocktail hour and reception will be held indoors. Cocktail hour will be in the Vista Room and the reception will be in the main ballroom at the El Paso Country Club.

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Will there be an open bar?

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There will be an open bar serving beer, wine, and spirits for guests to enjoy throughout cocktail hour and the reception.

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What is the weather and climate like in El Paso?

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In late November, temperatures hover around the mid 60s and drop down to the low 40s at night. El Paso experiences minimal rainfall in November.

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Where can I park for the wedding ceremony and reception?

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There will be plenty of on-site parking directly outside St. Matthew and El Paso Country Club.

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What time will the wedding reception end?

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Our reception will end around 10pm at El Paso Country Club.

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Can I still attend the ceremony at the church if I am not Catholic?

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Of course, everybody is welcome! You do not have to be Catholic to attend our wedding ceremony inside the Catholic Church.

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What will the Catholic wedding ceremony entail?

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There will be a full one-hour Catholic Mass including Liturgy of the Word, Marriage Rites, and Holy Communion. We understand some of our guests may not be Catholic or may not be familiar with the structure of a Catholic Mass. If you are not familiar, there will be various times to sit, stand, kneel, sing or respond. Our priest, Father Loyd, will provide appropriate direction so everyone can follow along. Please do not feel obligated to participate if you are not comfortable doing so. We just ask that you remain respectful and reverent.

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Will the ceremony and reception be kid-friendly?

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Yes, children are welcome to attend both the ceremony and reception. If your little ones become fussy during the ceremony at the church, we kindly ask that you step out with them to not cause any disturbances. Thank you for your understanding! There is a children's dinner menu at the reception, please reach out beforehand and let us know if you like to request a kids meal.

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Will there be meal options for guests with dietary restrictions or allergies?

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If you have dietary restrictions or allergies, you can let us know when you RSVP. We want you to feel comfortable and well fed!