FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please RSVP by May 1st, 2026. We can’t wait to celebrate with you—and need a headcount to make sure everyone’s well-fed, well-seated, and well-wined.
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What is a Catholic wedding ceremony?
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A Catholic wedding ceremony is a sacramental Mass in which the couple enters into the sacrament of marriage before God. It’s a sacred, prayerful celebration of love, faith, and commitment, rooted in centuries of tradition.
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Why are you having a Catholic ceremony?
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We chose a Catholic ceremony because our faith is central to our relationship. Celebrating our vows within the Mass allows us to honor God and the Church while beginning our life together spiritually grounded.
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What happens during the ceremony?
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During the Mass, guests can expect: Processional: Entrance of the bridal party and bride Liturgy of the Word: Readings from Scripture and a homily Exchange of Vows and Rings: The moment we commit to one another in front of God Unity Rituals: Often includes blessings, prayers, or symbolic gestures Communion: Participation in the Eucharist for practicing Catholics Recessional: Exit of the couple and wedding party
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Do I need to know anything about Catholic traditions to attend?
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At a Catholic Mass, only Catholics who are actively practicing and share the belief that the Eucharist is truly the Body and Blood of Christ may receive Holy Communion; this reflects full unity in faith and Church teaching. If you’re not receiving Communion, you’re very welcome to remain in your seat in prayer or, if you’d like to participate more visibly, you may join the Communion procession and cross your arms over your chest as a sign that you’re receiving a blessing rather than Communion — a common way to respectfully join the celebration without receiving the Eucharist. All guests are welcome, regardless of faith — simply follow along respectfully (stand, sit, or kneel as you feel comfortable) and enjoy the ceremony as a meaningful celebration of love. (Programs will be provided so you may follow along)
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What’s the timeline for the wedding day events?
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Saturday – Wedding Day 1:45 PM – Guests Arrive at St. Martha Church Please arrive by 1:45 PM so you’re comfortably seated before the ceremony begins. 2:00 PM – Ceremony Begins Our Catholic wedding Mass celebrates our union in faith and tradition. Surrounded by our loved ones, we’ll begin our life together before God. 3:00 PM – Ceremony Ends Time for hugs, photos, and a few happy tears! 3:30 PM – Reception Begins at The Nook Welcome to our intimate celebration! Start with drinks, light bites, and mingling while we take a few moments for photos. 5:00 PM – Dinner & Toasts Enjoy a delicious meal and hear heartfelt words from family and friends. 6:00 PM – Cake & Dessert Savor something sweet while continuing to celebrate with friends and family. 6:30 PM – First Dance & Open Dance Floor Cue the music and join us for dancing, including parent dances and plenty of fun for all ages. 8:00 PM – Reception Ends Time to say goodbyes and thank everyone for sharing this special day.
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Can I bring a gift to the wedding?
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Your presence is truly the best gift! If you’d like to bring something in person, thoughtful wedding cards are always appreciated. For those who prefer, our registry is available, and we kindly ask that any physical gifts be sent directly to our home to keep things simple on the day.
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Can I bring a date or plus-one?
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If your invitation includes a guest by name or says “+1,” then yes! If not, we kindly ask that you attend solo—we’re keeping it intimate.
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Are kids welcome?
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We love your little ones, but this will be an adults-only celebration (with the exception of our adorable flower girls, of course!).
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Is parking available?
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Church: Street parking and church lot spaces are available. Please allow extra time for parking. Reception at The Nook: Plenty of parking is available on-site.
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Can I take photos during the ceremony?
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We kindly ask that guests refrain from taking photos or videos during the ceremony. This allows everyone to fully participate in the sacred celebration and ensures the Mass remains reverent and prayerful. Professional photographers will capture all the special moments, and we’ll be sure to share the photos afterward so you can relive the day! Feel free to snap photos and capture memories once we move to the reception—we encourage lots of candid shots, dancing, and celebration there!
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Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?
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The ceremony will be held indoors, followed by an indoor cocktail hour and reception at The Nook.
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What will the weather be like?
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It’s Southern California in June, so expect warm, sunny days and cooler evenings. Daytime temperatures typically range from 77°F to 84°F, while evenings can drop to 56°F–60°F. We recommend wearing light, breathable fabrics for the daytime and bringing a stylish shawl, wrap, or light jacket for the evening, especially once the sun sets!
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What should I wear?
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Dress in elevated cocktail attire with a "Clothed In His Glory." flare! See our Dress Code section for full details.
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What is "Elevated Cocktail" attire?
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It lives between cocktail and formal: More polished and styled than standard cocktail. Not as traditional or dark as formal/black tie. For Women: - Dresses can be midi or long, but still light and festive (think flowy fabrics, elegant florals, pastels, satins) - Structured jumpsuits or co-ords in luxe materials - Refined accessories, heels or polished flats - Hair and makeup a little more “done,” but not red carpet-level glam For Men: - Full suit required - Ties not required - Pocket square highly encouraged (can be playful or classic) - Crisp button-up shirt; no polos - Loafers, oxfords, or leather dress shoes (clean and coordinated) See Dress Code Section for Full Details and Color Pallete Inspiration.
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What will the bridesmaids be wearing?
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Bridal Party will be dressed in butter yellow, sky blue, and pistachio green. We kindly ask guests to avoid these colors.
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Will catering and bar be provided?
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Yes! We’ll have food and drinks available at our reception, set up for everyone to enjoy while celebrating together.
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What should I do if I have dietary restrictions?
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Please include any dietary needs on your RSVP card or form. Our caterers will do their best to accommodate all requests.