FAQs

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Is this an elopement?

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While we’re not technically eloping, we’ve chosen to keep our wedding plans private, sharing the news only with close friends and family (you!). We kindly ask that no details be shared publicly until the day of the event. We also want to keep our day as clean and smooth as possible, and hopefully not be featured on Madison Humphreys TikTok parodies (lol). Please keep chaos and drama at home and don’t act trashy.

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When to show up?

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We will begin with a photo session with our professional photographer. Following that, immediate family and friends are invited to join us in the field for the signing of the marriage license. After the signing, cake, and photos, we’ll continue the celebration with a night out at the bars. See the “schedule” section on the website for times, which may be changed closer to the date!!

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Wedding registry?

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We are registered on Amazon under Sydney Harrison & Devan Charping. We’re planning the move to a new house in the VERY near future, so we have selected things on Amazon that we would love for our new home! We ask that you stick to our registry, but don’t feel obligated to give at all! Your presence is the greatest gift!

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Dress code?

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We ask that you skip the t-shirts and wear your nice, casual clothes for photos. Think jeans, boots, and something a little more put-together. Don’t go completely formal- whatever you wear to church is perfect. We’ll still be in our dressy outfits, so we’d love everyone to look sharp in the pictures with us. We have sent out a fall color pallet to family members with dark greens, burnt orange, and reds. You are welcome to follow these colors as well; We ask that you stay away from tan, beige and white. This includes felt hats. (Yes, it is felt hat season!)

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+1 ?

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Many of your spouses are already listed alongside your names and are, of course, warmly invited. We truly want everyone to feel comfortable and enjoy the evening, so if bringing your partner helps with that, we absolutely encourage it!

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Children?

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While we adore your little ones, please note that this is a 21+ event, as it will involve bar hopping and plenty of drinking. The only children to be present during the day are immediate family.

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Dinner?

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Devan and I will not be hosting a formal dinner. Please feel free to step away and grab a bite to eat whenever it suits you, or simply have dinner before joining us.

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Drink limit?

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Everyone will be responsible for their own tab at the bars. While we want this to be a fun and memorable night, we will not be babysitting anyone who overindulges. This is our wedding day, and we expect all guests to drink responsibly and carry themselves with respect.

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Posting pictures?

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Please feel free to take photos, we love that! We just kindly ask that nothing is posted on social media (including Snapchat) until we’ve had the chance to share first. Thanks for understanding!

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Driving home?

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Please drink responsibly and make arrangements to carpool or use a designated driver. While we care about everyone’s safety, we cannot take responsibility for individual choices made throughout the night. We do not condone drinking and driving under any circumstances.

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If I have any other questions?

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If you think of a question that we haven’t yet answered, Sydneys phone number is (864)280-4866. Feel free to reach out!