FAQs

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What if I’ve never attended a Catholic Mass?

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Our wedding will take place during a Catholic Mass, and if this is your first time, please don’t worry at all! No matter your background or level of familiarity, your presence is a true gift to us. We’re so happy you’re here to celebrate this special day! The Mass will include music, prayers, readings, and our vows — about an hour. There will be moments of sitting, standing, and possibly kneeling, but you can simply follow the lead of those around you or remain seated if that’s more comfortable. Nothing special is required to participate, and the program will help guide you through the flow of the ceremony. Communion is a sacred tradition for practicing Catholics. If you’re not receiving Communion, you are welcome to stay seated or come forward with your arms crossed to receive a simple blessing.

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What is the dress code?

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Black tie optional or formal attire. Feel free to express yourself with prints if you'd like—we'd love to see your personal style!

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Is there a gap between the ceremony and reception?

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Yes! After the ceremony at St. Paul's Catholic Church, there will be a short break before the reception at The Beverly Mansion. During the break, guests can: -Check into your hotel and relax: Take a little time to freshen up or even sneak in a quick nap — you’ll need the energy for dancing later! -Explore the area: Visit nearby shops, cafes, or parks if you want to stretch your legs. (Check out the "Things To Do" tab for some fun ideas!) -Grab a bite or coffee: There are plenty of local spots just a short walk or drive away.

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Is there parking at the Church and the reception?

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Yes, ample parking is available at both locations, and both venues are handicap accessible!

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Can we take photos during the ceremony?

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We kindly ask that all guests refrain from taking photos or videos during the ceremony. We have a professional photographer capturing everything—thank you for being present with us in the moment!

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Are children welcome?

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While we love your little ones, we politely request that children outside the wedding party do not attend the reception. We appreciate you making arrangements ahead of time and we look forward to celebrating with you!