We had our wedding ceremony on December 26, 2019 because Summer had "a bad feeling" about 2020. Thus, we will not have a ceremony. However, there will be some words from loved ones. The vows we exchanged were for us. This party serves as vows to you. Yes, you.
The dinner that you are able to RSVP for is the dinner you should plan to attend! We wanted to have a "kid" party with friends and an "adult" dinner with family. This is helping us mitigate crowding :)
This is a child-free celebration.
I am so glad you asked. For the wedding, if you meet someone you do not know, the best default is using they/them pronouns. The world revolves around cis folks enough, no? If this makes you anxious because you don't want to forget, that is okay! In approaching one another in good faith, mistakes are understandable. Lean into the anxiety, de-prioritize yourself, and remember it might make someone else feel good that you even tried.
While we love everyone coming and being (positively) messy, shit happens. At the end of the day, we are invested in everyone feeling totally comfortable. If you have an issue, we will have a few dedicated people in case you need anything.
Looking and, more importantly, feeling excellent is the most important theme. Summer has been looking at Bianca Jagger and Black American Y2K vibes. Adán is bringing the Norteño energy. A couple folks asked if they could wear culturally traditional outfits - YES. Easy answer. If you feel best in chain mail, then goddammit wear chain mail. Love y'all. :)
But, of course. You are not the first to inquire.
Throw a rock and you'll hit a place. If you want something good, there are many, many varieties and I'll need more personal palette information. There are halal, vegetarian, vegan, high quality, low quality, etc. cheese steaks, so do not think your dietary restrictions means you can't get one!