Sikh Wedding Ceremony

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Entering the Gurdwara

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Upon entering the Gurdwara guests will find a coat and shoe room to their right. Shoes are required to be removed while in the Gurdwara. After removing your shoes and covering your head, you can walk down to the basement to the Langar Hall. Here, guests can enjoy refreshments and socialize prior to the ceremony. The ceremony will occur in the Darbar Hall (the main prayer room) on the 2nd floor. Head coverings are required while in the Darbar Hall out of respect. You will notice that members of the Sikh Community walk towards the altar at the front and bow before the Holy Book (Guru Granth Sahib Ji). They then provide a small monetary donation for the temple. Non-Sikhs are not obligated to bow. If you do wish to participate, you are most welcome to do so. For the Anand Karaj, the Bride and Groom will be seated front and center of the altar.

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Covering Head/Removing Shoes

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Prior to entering the main floor of the Gurdwara, both men and women are required to remove their shoes and to cover their heads. The show room is to the right as you enter through the main entrance of the Gurdwara. There are plenty of shelves where your shoes can be stowed. Feel free to walk barefoot or in socks for your time at the temple. For the gentlemen, there will be rumaals (bandanas) available for you inside the shoe room in the Gurdwara, or you’re welcome to bring your own. *Please note that caps, beanies, and hoodies are not considered appropriate headwear for the occasion.* For the ladies, we ask that you bring a scarf or shawl, also referred to as a chunni or dupatta, to cover your head and shoulders while you are at the temple.

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Dress Code

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For the Anand Karaj at the Gurdwara, formal and conservative attire is requested. Our guests will be required to sit on the carpeted floor during the duration of the ceremony, so please wear pants or a dress that would allow you to do so comfortably. If you are interested in wearing an Indian outfit, feel free to contact the Bride, Groom, or your Indian friends to borrow or to get help to purchase an Indian outfit.

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Other

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No alcohol or smoking is permitted inside the Gurdwara or on the grounds of the Gurdwara.