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Short answer: it's a joke! Long answer: It's something I (Alanna) started saying a while back because I thought it was funny. Basically, it's acknowledging that whatever you're saying does suck, but at this moment it's unchangeable! So it sucks to be in your situation of suckiness. This past year or so, everyone has been in a lot of sucky situations. So that phrase became very prevalent in our lives. It's a kinda light hearted way to say "Stick it out until it doesn't suck anymore." Sucks to suck.
We are monitoring the covid case numbers in our area to determine what our ask will be with masks. If you are not fully vaccinated, it is strongly suggested that you wear a mask. We do not want to remember our wedding as a super spreader event or as the cause of friends' or family's illnesses. We care about you and want this to be a happy, fun day for everyone, but we also want everyone to be safe. No one will be shamed for wearing or not wearing a mask, but we ask that you please keep in mind the safety of both yourself and others. The only way this world will ever get better is if we care for each other and ourselves as best we can. Love to all.