FAQs

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When should I get there?

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The ceremony will start promptly at 3:30 PM, so we recommend guests arrive 15-30 minutes before the ceremony starts. This will allow time to find parking for your car and find a seat.

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Will there be parking?

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For the ceremony, the church has plenty of parking spaces. Please see the illustration at the top of the page for parking instructions for the reception venue.

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What dress should I wear?

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if you're a man, please don't. Semi-formal is the look we want, no tux needed, but look classy. Maybe that means a blazer and a tie, or a nice button up and tie, but no jeans and sneakers. if you're a woman, a dress (or jumpsuit) is a pretty safe move. For obvious reasons, please avoid shades of white... The bridal party will be in burgundy/cabernet, so we also ask you to avoid these colors, as well). Also, please remember this is an October wedding, and could be chilly at night.

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Can I photobomb the ceremony?

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No, please do not photobomb the ceremony. There will be a specified time for photos during the ceremony, so we request that outside of that window, no photos should be taken. Additionally, we request all phones be put away and silenced until the photo period of the ceremony. We want our moment to be special and interruption free. There will be plenty of photo opportunities during the reception though, feel free to take photos with us then.

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Where on earth do I get a good sandwich in Buffalo?! (asking for a friend ofc)

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Maybacks Deli in Tonawanda. It looks like a dive, but trust me, the stinger sandwich slaps hard.

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Can the kiddos tag along?

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Kids are more than welcome for the ceremony itself, but the reception hall will be a much tighter fit, and unless your child is listed on your RSVP, they are requested not to come. Excuse yourself to a child-free night with the Mrs. <3 <3

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Do I get a plus one?

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Unless formally stated on your save the date/invite, we would politely request you leave that 'special someone' back home for the night.

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When should I reserve my spot?

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Please let us know by Sunday, September 29 if you can or cannot attend. You can RSVP through this website either at the top of the page, or by clicking on the menu icon if using mobile.