FAQs

Question

I don't get it. Is this a wedding?

Answer

We were legally married on October 30, 2025 at the Staten Island Courthouse. Shortly after that, we had a small, intimate elopement with just our immediate family in the Poconos. This invitation is for our long-overdue reception so we can finally celebrate with everyone - just a little more relaxed.

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Is this a costume party?

Answer

Please dress in cocktail attire for the reception, then come to the after party in your best costume and we can ring in Halloween 2026 the right way!

Question

What time does the party end?

Answer

As adults we get tired very early, so Cocktail Hour starts at 4pm and the reception is from 5pm-9pm. That way you have the option to either have a relaxing night at the hotel, attend the after party, or just go home.

Question

4PM start time?! That's so early!

Answer

Just take a half day. Your boss will understand.

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Will there be transportation to and from the hotel?

Answer

Yes, we will be providing a shuttle service to take guests from the hotel to the venue, and back to the hotel afterwards. More details to come later.

Question

Why is there nothing on the registry?

Answer

In the words of A Day To Remember - "we've got everything we need". So, money is just fine.

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Are children invited?

Answer

Due to the large number of family and close friends, only children of the family are able to attend. Those children will be listed in the guest group on the RSVP. So if you don't see your child(ren)'s name, you're unfortunately going to have to get a babysitter.

Question

Can I still attend the after party at the hotel if I'm not staying?

Answer

OF COURSE! The more the merrier!