FAQs

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Planning a wedding? During COVID?

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We're positive thinkers! It is our sincere hope that by November 2021 it will be safe to travel and have large celebrations so we're going forward and planning as normal. Travel, accommodations, etc. are being super flexible, so while we hope our plans (and now yours) won't be affected, there are assurances and safety nets in place.

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Where should I stay?

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You have options! Please see our Travel and Accommodations page for details.

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What is the dress code?

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Please see our Schedule page for attire suggestions for the weekend.

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Can I bring a date?

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While we wish everyone could bring a plus-one, we are restricted to a certain capacity at our venue. If your invitation says “and Guest,” then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you. Reach out to one of us if you're unsure.

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Are kids invited?

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We love your kids—we really do. But we want our wedding to be your night off! Youngsters may be welcome at other wedding related events but Saturday's ceremony and reception will be adults only.

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Is there parking at the venue?

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Yes, there is plenty of parking but as we want you to enjoy yourselves, we encourage taking a taxi or Uber! For those guests staying at the Oxford Belfry, there will also be a shuttle to transport to and from the venue.

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Unrelated to COVID, I’m not sure I can come to England. Will there be an event in Los Angeles?

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Yes! While we would love to have all of our American loved ones join us in Aylesbury, we know it’s quite a schlep! Official date is still TBD but we will also be having a Los Angeles reception to celebrate after our November nuptials!

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What happens if COVID forces a cancellation or postponement?

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We sincerely hope that this won't be the case! But seeing as we are already legally married, we will just find a new date in the future! We want our wedding to be a celebration with lots of hugs and champagne bubbles, not masks and distancing bubbles. So if we can't go ahead with the wedding party we envision, we'll wait until we can.