We love your kids -- we really do! But we want this to be a night off for everyone. No children under age 12 please.
If your invitation says "and Guest," then yes, if not, we would prefer it is just you.
Cocktail, please. But we want you all to be comfortable, so if those shoes are too high or that button is too tight, let it all hang loose! Heads up ladies, the ceremony is outdoor so plan your footwear accordingly!