FAQs

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What should I wear?

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That's a solid question. We trust your judgement on this one. Cocktail attire. However, ties are optional [Kathleen holds firm on this]. We want you to feel and look good [and most importantly, be comfortable]. Oh yeah, and don't wear white.

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Will we be indoors or outdoors?

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Another great question. The whole production start to finish will be indoors. However, there is always the option to step outside during the cocktail hour and reception. The park is beautiful so please, enjoy it!

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Will there be parking at the venue?

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Yes! There's a parking lot right next to the venue. If you are staying at one of the hotels, there will also be a shuttle that will pick you up AND drop you off. **Please note that it is valet parking [we know, we know]. Kathleen and Steven will have cash on them to tip the valet if needed!**

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What is the Uber/Lyft situation like in Jersey City?

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If you are not staying at one of the hotels or not driving to the venue, it shouldn't be an issue grabbing an Uber or Lyft [even if you make your way to the afterparty]. We would rather you be safe than drive--please remember that!

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How the heck will I get to your wedding if I am not driving or ubering (lyfting)?

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Please note that there will be two shuttle buses leaving from the Residence Inn on the way to the party and on the way home. Pick-up on the way to the wedding will begin at about 4 PM and drop-off will begin at about 10:15.

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Can I bring someone?

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We always giggle when we see this question on a wedding website. You are able to bring whomever is on your envelope--unfortunately, that is it. If you're thinking about bringing your dog though...that's a totally different story...

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Wait Kathleen has how many siblings again?

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She has five siblings. Four older brothers [Krys, Mike, Sean and Ryan] and one sister [Kelsey]. If you need a family tree drawn out, please ask Kathleen.

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Who will cry more?

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My money is on Steven. But who knows, Ryan McIlraith might be in hysterics.

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Is this wedding BYOC?

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Yes--this wedding is BYOC [bring your own crocs]. We highly suggest bringing comfortable shoes in your purse or satchel that you'll lug with you to the wedding. Kathleen's favorite comfort shoe is the croc [I mean it's a party shoe AND shower shoe] so, highly encouraged.