We had met at the beginning of a summer retreat in 2017. Every nine days we would have a break day and would often precede this break with a party. Ben was dancing with one of our teachers, Karl. They have a tendency to make the best dance partners together. Stephanie went up to Ben after he had taken a break and said, "Where's your dance partner?" and he said, "I thought I was looking at her." BEST PICK UP LINE EVER.