FAQs
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When is the RSVP deadline?
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Please RSVP by September 1, 2025 so we can ensure an accurate headcount for vendors.
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Do I need to send my RSVP back or can I do it online?
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We ask you RSVP online via the QR code included in the invitation.
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Is there a dress code?
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We would love our guests to adhere to a cocktail dress code. This doesn't mean you need to rent a three-piece tux but keep in mind this is a wedding not a Bennigan's. Also be aware this is a fall wedding so sleeves, coats might be a good idea.
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Do I get a plus one?
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Everyone should have a plus one if their partner or family is not named in the RSVP. It might show up as "Unnamed Guest" on the RSVP website. We ask you write out the name of your plus one when prompted.
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Can I bring my kids?
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It will be indicated on your invitation if your entire family is invited. Please include any children on the RSVP. Keep in mind no childcare will be provided and ask you be mindful of any young children you may bring. We also ask you keep in mind that alcohol will be served and explicit music might be played at the reception. Use your discretion when it comes to bringing young children.
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Myself/one of my family members wants to bring a plus one that isn't listed on the RSVP portal. Is that ok?
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We have very specific numbers we have to give catering/venue for the reception. We ask you don't invite or bring anyone who is not indicated on your invitation. If you believe this was an oversight you can email us at our wedding email at the bottom of this page.
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Can I park at the venue?
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Yes! Onsite parking is available
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When do I need to arrive by?
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For the ceremony we ask you are IN YOUR SEAT by 4 p.m. as the wedding ceremony starts promptly at 4 p.m. That means you should aim to arrive by 3:50. There is a train track that runs between the venue and town so it might be smart to leave early in order to beat any possible delays.
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Will there be an open bar?
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Yes! We will be serving beer and wine at the cocktail hour and reception as well as a signature cocktail.
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Who do I tell if I have a food allergy/sensitivity?
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You will be able to indicate this on the RSVP portal.
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Am I invited to the rehearsal dinner?
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While we would love to get facetime with everyone ahead of the wedding realistically it is just not possible. If you are invited to the rehearsal dinner it will be indicated on your invitation.
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I am having trouble with the RSVP website.
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Make sure you are using the name as its written on your mailing address. If you and a partner are invited try using their name. If the RSVP form still isn't working shoot us an email at stanley102525@gmail.com.
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Who do i contact if I still have questions?
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Texting either of us won't guarantee a response. If you need to reach out we ask you use our wedding email: stanley102525@gmail.com and one of us should get back to you.