FAQs

Question

How should I RSVP?

Answer

To RSVP, go to the RSVP page on this website and answer as soon as possible. Please submit your RSVP by August 1st, 2026 at the latest so we can plan accordingly!

Question

Can I bring a plus one?

Answer

To ensure we can accommodate all our beloved guests, only those explicitly named on your invitation are included. Thank you for understanding!

Question

Are kids welcome?

Answer

We respectfully request no children at the reception, allowing all of our guests to enjoy an adults-only evening. If you have an infant, you are more than welcome to bring them. We just will only have seats and plates for guests specifically addressed on the invitation. If you would like to bring your children to the ceremony, everyone is always welcome in the church!

Question

What do I do if I can’t make it?

Answer

You will be dearly missed! If you cannot make it, please let us know as soon as possible and RSVP “Not attending” so we can plan accordingly. Thank you!

Question

What if I don’t RSVP on time?

Answer

If you do not RSVP by August 1st you will be marked as “not attending”. We would love to celebrate with you, but we need to provide an exact number to our vendors and cannot accept late RSVPs.

Question

What is the dress code?

Answer

Our wedding dress code is formal. Dress to impress! Tuxes, suits, dress pants with sports jackets, and long dresses or elevated cocktail dresses are welcome. Please no jeans, baseball hats or white dresses. The ceremony and reception will be held inside.

Question

What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

Answer

The ceremony will start promptly at 2PM. Please arrive at least 15 minutes before the ceremony to get settled.

Question

Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

Answer

Once the ceremony begins, we ask for all phones to be silenced and put away so everyone can be in the moment. Our photographer will capture the best pictures which we will share with you. Once the ceremony is over - please take as many photos as you’d like and don’t forget to share them with us!

Question

Will there be alcohol?

Answer

Yes, we will have an open bar for all of our guests to enjoy complimentary drinks throughout the event.

Question

I still have questions, what is the best way to contact you?

Answer

For any questions or concerns, please feel free to text Makaila at (585)993-1497.

Question

Do you have a wedding registry?

Answer

Yes, we have a wedding registry! You can find all the details on the Registry page of our website!

Question

What do we do in between the ceremony and the reception?

Answer

There will be a short break in between the ceremony and the reception. During this time, feel free to get a drink at 39 Problems, Mecate, Gilligan’s Galley or The Black North which are all within a few minutes of either the church or the reception venue.

Question

Will there be an after party?

Answer

We will be heading across the street to the Black North after the reception for the after party! (cash bar).