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October 17, 2026
Avondale, PA

Grace & Robert

FAQs

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Is there a dress code?

Answer

Our dress code is cocktail attire. The ceremony is outdoors and the cocktail hour is on a covered patio, dress according to the weather.

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Can I take pictures?

Answer

We are having an “unplugged” ceremony (no phones or cameras). The greatest gift you can give us is to be fully present as we say “I do.” We have hired professionals to capture this special moment and will share those photos.

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Will there be an open bar?

Answer

Have you never met a Roth or Stafford before? Kidding! Of course there will be an open bar with a variety of beer, wine, liquor, and seltzer options. Also, a 1 hour after party on the patio that is open bar, please spend even more time with us!

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Are there any colors we should avoid wearing?

Answer

We kindly ask that you avoid colors traditionally reserved for the bride: white, ivories, and creams.

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Am I allowed to bring a plus one?

Answer

In order to keep our wedding as intimate as possible, only guests formally invited on your wedding invitation will be accommodated.

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Can I go to the clubhouse bar?

Answer

No, Hartefeld is a private club. Please keep all drinking to our event.