Wedding Party
Onesmus Nyabuti
Groom
Stacey Moryas
Bride
Duke Mong'are
Best Man
I honestly cannot recall exactly where I first met Onesmus, but one of my most vivid memories of him is from Youth Day in Delaware on July 20, 2019, followed by the indoor soccer social the next day. Since then, we have shared many meaningful interactions and built a connection on different levels. One of the things that has brought us together is our shared love for sports. He is an avid sports fan, just like I am, and we have enjoyed many conversations about American football and soccer. I must say that Onesmus you are supporting the wrong (Man Useless) premier league team. Even you know this to be true!!!! Beyond sports, we also connect through music. We share similar interests in music and musical culture, especially our appreciation for Kurasini Music. Onesmus is a laid-back, humble, and respectful gentleman. He carries himself with kindness and sincerity, and it is clear that he has a caring heart. I must say that Stacey is truly blessed to have such a kindhearted man in her life. To Stacey, please take good care of our brother. Wishing you both a joyful, blessed, and beautiful matrimony filled with love, peace, and happiness.
Naomi Mong'are
Maid of Honor
Hey hey! I’m Naomi, and I have the pleasure of being friends with both Stacey and Conesmus (yes I know I added C sorry for another day). Honestly, I can’t even tell you when I first met them, it just feels like I’ve always known them. Our friendship didn’t have a big “start” moment… it just kind of happened and here we are! Now, if you know Stacey, you know she’s the definition of sweet and quiet. She’s the kind of person who won’t say no, will help you with anything, and somehow still manages to be the calm in every situation. And then there’s CONESMUS!… the complete opposite. Nes is the resident comedian, always joking, a little sarcastic, and probably not serious 90% of the time. When I first found out they were together, it was one of those “aww… wait, that actually makes perfect sense” moments. And somehow, it just works like, really works. Stacey keeps Nes grounded (because someone has to), and Nes makes sure Stacey is always laughing (whether she wants to or not). I will say this Nes has truly been such a gentleman to Stacey, and it’s clear how much he loves and respects her. And Stacey? She is hands down one of the best things that has ever happened to him (and we all know it). Seeing them together is just easy. They bring out the best in each other, balance each other out, and make love look fun, real, and full of laughter. I’m so happy to be part of their journey. May God guide you through all your plans. Imagine newapenda tu bure!
Boaz Okoth
Groomsman
I met Onesmus a couple of years ago when Onesmus was visiting Minnesota, and thanks to mutual friends, we quickly became like brothers. Since then, our friendship has been built on good laughs, great conversations, and one ongoing disagreement: sports. Onesmus is a die-hard sports fanatic who somehow knows every stat, every player, and every game schedule like it’s his second job. I, on the other hand, I’ve never understood anything in sports. Despite our sports differences, Onesmus has been a loyal and genuine friend, and I’m grateful for the brotherhood we’ve built. I’m incredibly happy for you and Stacey as you begin this new chapter together. I’m honored to be a part of your new journey and wishing you nothing but the very best.
Purity Okoth
Bridesmaid
My name is Purity. I am honored to be part of the bridal party. I have known Stacey for a couple years now and ever since I met her she has stood up to be a kind friend to have with a generous heart, and unwavering loyalty to the people she loves. Stacey has a soft humor and a welcoming spirit that makes one feel comfortable when hanging out with her and also feel appreciated. Her and Onesmus naturally fit together and their relationship portray nothing but friendship, love and resilience. I am excited for this new chapter of their journey and wishing them all the best.
Sospeter Makworo
Groomsman
As the proud elder brother of the groom, I’ve had the privilege of watching Onesmus grow from a curious little boy into the remarkable man he is today. Growing up, he brought energy, laughter, and adventure wherever he went. Whether we were getting into harmless mischief, competing over the smallest things, or supporting each other through life’s challenges, he has always been someone I could count on. He was the athlete in our family, excelling in soccer before later falling in love with basketball. More importantly, he grew into a kind, compassionate man who genuinely cares for others. One quality I admire most is his loyalty. He shows up for family and friends without hesitation, celebrates their successes, and offers support when it’s needed. His generosity, sense of humor, and ability to make people feel valued are just a few reasons so many are drawn to him. Seeing him find Stacey has been one of our family’s greatest joys. Together, they bring out the best in each other and share a relationship built on love, trust, friendship, faith, and respect. As he begins this new chapter, I am filled with pride—not only for the man he has become, but for the life he and Stacey are building together. I know their home will be filled with love, laughter, and beautiful memories. To my younger brother: thank you for being an incredible sibling and friend. I wish you and Stacey a lifetime of happiness, adventure, and enduring love. With love and pride, Your Elder Brother
Isabel Muga
Bridesmaid
I first met Stacey and Onesmus on December 3rd, 2022, when I came to Delaware for the first time to attend Youth Day. At the time, I had no idea that Onesmus would one day become my brother-in-law. After being invited to their home to enjoy their mom’s famous fried fish, I watched as the three brothers served their guests with such care and responsibility. I remember thinking how admirable it was to see their character and the way they showed up for others. Over the years, I’ve also had the joy of getting to know Stacey more closely. She is witty, always ready with the best jokes, and beneath it all has a soft and sensitive heart for the people she loves most. Stacey and Onesmus, it is such a blessing to witness your union. My prayer is that your marriage will be filled with love, laughter, patience, and unwavering support for one another. May God bless your home for many years to come 🙏🏾.
Ezra Nyabuti
Groomsman
I feel blessed to have Onesmus as my brother and inspiration. We've always had a special bond, and I think it's because we've never felt the need to compete with each other. He's always been passionate about sports, a man-u fanatic ( I never really cared for it), while I've loved to dance lol. But what I cherish most about him is his generosity and easygoing nature. He's a selfless and nonchalant person , and I'm so proud of all his accomplishments.
Ashley Omwega
Bridesmaid
I met Stacey and Ness back in 2024 during a Fourth of July weekend trip to Charlotte, and from the moment I arrived, they welcomed me with open arms. What started as a weekend visit turned into a friendship that I’ll always be grateful for. Over the years, they’ve become such important people in my life, and it’s truly an honor to stand beside them on their wedding day. One of the things I love most about Stacey and Ness is the way they choose each other every single day. Their love story is a reminder that God is real, that He works through people, and that His timing is always perfect. Through every challenge and obstacle, they’ve continued to love each other intentionally and wholeheartedly. I love them both so much, and I love their love story even more. I couldn’t be happier to celebrate this next chapter with them.
Jura Ochich
Groomsman
I'm Jura Ochich, one of Onesmus's groom'sman. Our friendship is a God-driven story: I discovered him singing on YouTube, then randomly met him at Umoja SDA in Raleigh. When he moved to Charlotte, our friendship grew into a true brotherhood—now we even sing together. He has truly become a brother to me. Onesmus and The fiance Stacey have become family. Seeing him find his partner in life is one of the greatest joys.". Today, I couldn't be prouder to stand by his side as he marries the love of his life. Proverbs 18:22" Onesmus and Stacey, watching you come together is a beautiful answer to prayer. May your life together be as harmonious as the songs we sing. May your marriage be filled with love, laughter, and endless duets. God bless your union!
Everline Gesare
Bridesmaid
It’s hard to put into words what Stacey and Onesmus mean to me because they’re family. I first met Nes in 2016 after moving to Delaware. His parents were so welcoming, and naturally I gained 3 brothers. Over the years, Nes became a brother I could count on through every phase of life. His selflessness and commitment as a leader, friend, brother, uncle, and now fiancé are inspiring. I’m honored to call him my brother from another mother. I know he’ll be an amazing husband and father. Then my brother brought along the most humble, graceful, beautiful girl (Risase ria Bochura). I met Stacey in NC at one of the many music events there. She’s naturally quiet, but over time I saw why my brother fell in love with her. She is soft, humble, caring, funny, selfless, and deeply committed to the people she loves. And don’t let the softness fool you because she can definitely get you together when needed! I’ve grown to love her dearly and I’m blessed to call her my sister. Also, her style? Sis leaves no crumbs. Stacey and Onesmus deserve the pure love they’ve found in each other. I pray God blesses your marriage with love, peace, prosperity, health, wealth, and many babies. My babies and I love you both dearly. Thank you for always being there for us. #StaceygotfiNessed💍
Wesley Monda
Groomsman
The details behind meeting Onesesmus are very unclear. I believe I met him at Umoja circa 2017/2018. Nes has always been a charismatic and charming man from when I met him. He treated me like a brother and that kind of bond is really special. Nes has always carried himself with kindness and genuine kindness that makes whoever he’s around feel seen, valued, and comfortable around him. Being treated like a brother by him is something i’ve never taken for granted. That kind of bond is rare, and it speaks volumes about the kind of man he is… loyal, caring, and deeply genuine. I’m grateful not to only know him but to call him my brother
Marion Guto
Bridesmaid
Hi everyone, I am Ms. Nyatuka. I lack words. I’m incredibly honored to be part of Stacey and Onesmus’ lives. Since meeting them, so many beautiful memories, jokes, and laughs have been shared. Life feels lighter with friends like these two by your side. I met Onesmus through a mutual friend (shoutout to Dede!) and met Stacey through him. I still remember our first conversation. He asked, “How’s the weather over there?” while I was less than 10 minutes away 😂 He is truly the king of dad jokes and somehow always finds himself hilarious. When you think of Onesmus, joy naturally follows. He gives so much of himself to others with such grace and selflessness. I later met Stacey on a group trip, and that trip led to a beautiful sisterhood. Knowing Stacey is knowing peace. She’s calm, caring, and somehow makes everything happen quietly in the background like a little genie. And her fashion sense? Have you seen her put together an outfit? I digress. Stacey and Onesmus are truly perfect for each other. Watching them together feels like looking at art—every detail blending effortlessly and beautifully. Their love feels natural, genuine, and rare. To Stacey and Onesmus, watching your love grow has been beautiful and fun to witness. You balance each other so well and turn ordinary moments into something special. I’m excited for your next chapter filled with adventures, inside jokes, late-night talks, and lifelong memories. With love, Marion Nyatuka
Noble Obodum
Groomsman
My name is Noble and I’m a software engineer from Charlotte. I’ll never forget meeting Onesmus after he moved to Charlotte in early 2024 during a church social event. Stacey casually introduced him like “this is Onesmus,” and I had no idea they were dating 😂 Later she told me he was a music teacher who would help with the youth music at church. Little did I know we’d end up starting a youth choir together—something I had refused to do for years 😅 A few weeks later, we traveled to South Carolina for a youth rally, and that’s when we really bonded. Over the past two years, I’ve known Nes as a musician, choir director, leader, travel buddy, and most importantly, a friend. He truly IS the one 😁 Nes is one of the kindest, most thoughtful, empathetic, patient, and supportive people I know. He’s the type of person you always want in your corner because he will always cheer you on and push you to become your best self. He’s honest, wise, hilarious, and naturally brings people together. As an introvert, it takes me a long time to open up to people, but after only a few months, it felt like I’d known him for years. Most importantly, he loves God deeply and serves Him faithfully. It’s been an honor co-directing Safari Youth Choir with him. I’m so grateful for him and Stacey, and I pray God continues to bless and guide your marriage. I love you both!
Sabina Nyangwechi
Bridesmaid
Wow, where do I even begin? I met Nes on a random Friday evening at his brother’s house, and I remember that night so clearly because it felt like I had known him, and everyone else there, my entire life. It was as if we were longtime friends catching up, when in reality, we had just met. I met Stacey the following day. She was quiet and reserved at first, but later that Sabbath evening, as we were winding down for the night, she, Marion, and I sat together and poured our hearts out. Once again, it felt like friends reconnecting after years apart rather than people just getting to know each other. It’s now been almost two years since then, and I thank God every day for both of them- for the community they introduced me to, for making me feel like family, and for the beautiful friendships that came into my life because of them. Stacey and Nes, as you begin this new chapter, I pray for God’s favor, guidance, and protection over your lives. May you be blessed as abundantly as you bless others. I love you both.
Max Orure
Groomsman
I’ve known you for years now, Nes—so long I can’t even remember how we first met. But from the start, you’ve been a real one. Our shared love for music definitely played a part, but it’s your loyalty and character that made the friendship what it is. You’re the kind of friend where even if we don’t talk every day, it’s always the same when we link—real, easy, and genuine. That’s something I’ll always appreciate. Seeing you and Stacey step into this new chapter is a beautiful thing. I’m truly happy for both of you. Nes, you found someone special—someone to grow with, build with, and love fully. Stacey, you’re gaining a great man. I’m honored to stand by your side as a groomsman. It really means a lot to me. My prayer is that God guides your union, strengthens your love, and blesses everything you build together. just know life don’t end here, you just gotta get clearance now before we make plans 😂
Lindsey Gekonge
Bridesmaid
Stacey and I go way back to Okongo, the church where we used to worship years ago….(zama za kale)When we first met, it was all about music, and our shared love for it brought us back together again. Through music, I also met Nes about 6–7 years ago. Chwengele has been part of so many concerts and gatherings we attended—just enjoying life as youth while growing in our relationship with God. That’s how our friendship has continued, and I’m truly grateful to have met such amazing people. Stacey and Nes, thank you for being there for me during some hardest moments in my life (ni moja tu🤭) and for always finding a way to make me laugh. Who would have thought that this circle of friendship would lead to something so beautiful? I truly thank God for it. Thank you for making me part of your special day. It’s truly an honor to celebrate this beautiful moment with you both. I pray that God blesses your union abundantly, and that your marriage is always rooted in His Word. I’m so happy for you both and look forward to the big day. Harusi twasija! 💍✨
Douglas Morumbwa
Groomsman
Over the few years, I’ve been lucky enough to meet and build some amazing friendships while living in a few different states. One of those friendships started back in late 2023, not long after I first moved to the East Coast from the Midwest . I met Nes at his family home in Delaware after my first trip there with my NC friends. From the moment I arrived, he and his family welcomed me with so much kindness and made a new guy feel right at home. Since that first trip, we’ve made many more visits to Delaware, and each one has created great memories I’ll always appreciate. Nes is the kind of friend where even if we don’t talk every day, the friendship only gets stronger every time we connect. As our friendship continues to grow, I’m grateful that life gave us the chance to meet. My prayer for you, Nes, is that God grants you the many wishes you carry in your heart—not just as yourself, but as the soon-to-be husband of Stacey. I’m proud to stand by and cheer for your union and the life you’re building together.
Ivyonne Opiyo
Bridesmaid
Hello! My name is Ivyonne, AKA Mrs. Opiyo. I have had the joy of knowing both Onesmus and Stacey since 2018, though I met them on separate occasions. Somehow, fate brought us all together. Our friendship grew over time, and at some point I unofficially became their mediator… if you know, you know! Since then, I have had the privilege of watching them grow both individually and together in love, maturity, and even physically! I love these two so much. I clearly remember jokingly telling them they were delaying me… and now, finally, they’ve made it to the “I do.” 🤣 It’s truly an honor to stand beside them as a bridesmaid and witness the beginning of this beautiful new chapter. Onesmus and Stacey, I am so happy for you both. May God richly bless your union, and may your journey together be filled with endless love, laughter, and unforgettable moments. I can’t wait to watch you promise forever to each other. Final note: Some love stories are written by fate, but this one is sealed with friendship, faith, and a lifetime of love. Cheers 🥂 to both of you, let’s do this! ❤️🫶🏾
Humphrey Chamberlain Shayo
Groomsman
I met with Onesmus for the first time at KYR 2018. Among many greatest memories that I'll always treasure are the trips we took to Delaware. They opened their home to host us with kindness and in such a humbling way. From Retreat function over years and frequent youth events that brought us together bonded the brotherhood spirit. May God Bless you, may He increase your territory and protect you against all Harms as you walk into matrimonial life. May Peace, Joy, and Love abide within your household all days of your lives (Onesmus & Stacey)
Govenelle Mageto
Bridesmaid
Stacey and Nes, you are truly a blessing, not only to many but especially to me. I still remember meeting Nes on a Sunday afternoon at a wedding in New Jersey. From the start, he gave me such a hard time that it somehow turned into a lifelong friendship. Not long after, at a retreat, we met the lovely bride Stacey. Nes couldn’t stop talking about her, and it was clear that something special was brewing. He would always say he met his wife while trying to win Stacey’s heart, and we thank God that his efforts were blessed and beautifully fulfilled. What has always stood out most is how perfectly you complement each other, your character, your spirit, and the way you move through life together. Stacey, getting to know you has been just as much a gift, and I gained not just a friend but a sister, too. Together, you both embody what it means to love God and to love others deeply and unconditionally. Your relationship reflects God’s love in such a genuine and powerful way. Anyone who has the privilege of knowing you understands what it means to have true, blue-ribbon friends with hearts of gold. It is an honor to witness this beautiful milestone in your journey together, a dream come true, especially for Nes. There is no doubt that your home will continue to be filled with love, joy, faith, and warmth because of how open, kind, and welcoming you both are. May God continue to bless your union abundantly and use your love as a light to others.
Neville Masese
Groomsman
To ask me how I know Onesmus is the same as asking me how I know my brother. We met at a Kenyan youth retreat in 2018 and have kept in contact ever since then. Through good times and bad times Onesmus has always been there for me. Ever since Onesmus moved to Charlotte, NC in January 2024 our bond became even stronger as we usually meet regularly from taking trips together to meeting up for lunch or just simply hanging out. Would not trade any of those memories for anything. Besides his terrible taste in sports teams and his delusion that he’s better than me at every activity, he is a decent guy and I wish him and Stacey all the best in their life long journey together. Cannot wait to celebrate their love and see what the future has in store for them! Cheers to Stacey & Onesmus! #StaceygetsfiNessed
Sylvia Monari
Bridesmaid
I met Onesmus and Stacey through mutual friends, and over time I’ve really come to appreciate the kind of people they both are and the friendship we’ve built. Onesmus is one of those people who loves to joke and keep everyone laughing, but he’s also someone you can talk to about anything without feeling judged. That balance is one of the things that makes him such a great friend. Stacey, on the other hand, is someone whose presence immediately leaves an impression. From the first time you meet her, you can tell she has a beautiful soul and such a warm, genuine aura. She is kind, thoughtful, and naturally makes those around her feel comfortable and valued. I truly appreciate the friendship we share, and I’m honored to be part of this special journey with them. I wish Onesmus and Stacey a lifetime filled with love, laughter, and a marriage that continues to grow stronger with each passing year.
Cliff Isaac Achokah
Groomsman
Onesmus, Stacey, and I go way back. We all met in 2018 at a youth retreat in Illinois. That retreat was the beginning of a great friendship. Nes and I clicked right away, especially after I found out his birthday was a day before mine, which I later found out was a lie. Since then, our friendship has turned into a real brotherhood, one that has survived the many droughts and winless seasons for our beloved club Man United. Nes has supported me in ways I am forever indebted. He’s a real brother, always ready to lend a helping hand. I recall a time when Nes, Stacey, and I had a conversation about what their wedding would look like and for that day to finally be here is a testament of commitment between them and Gods goodness upon them. To be a part of this moment is special and I can only wish them both a lifetime of joy, success, and happiness.
Bounty Mong'are
Bridesmaid
I met Stacey and Nes through mutual friends. My first interaction with Stacey was kind hearted, generous and calm so I could tell that I we would get along. Over the time I have gotten to know Stacey and she really demonstrates all the qualities that make her so fitted as Nes’ forever partner. Getting to know Stacey has been fun as she keeps the atmosphere lively but goal oriented. Stacey is truly a good match for Nes and it’s clear the love is genuine for each through their playful banter. I am really excited to celebrate this amazing union and pray for an enduring happiness!
Thomas Kinful
Groomsman
Hi, my name is Thomas, but most people know me as Tommy. Some call me Thom, others Tom Tom, I’m “little bro” to Stacey and Nes, and to a select few, I’m Mokogoti. My role in this wedding is simple: I’m here to be the best flower boy you’ve ever seen… and probably the only flower boy you’ll ever see 😂 I first met Nes when I was about 9 years old. It was cool meeting him and his brothers, but for some reason I just started following Nes everywhere. At some point, he realized I wasn’t going to stop, so he accepted that he had a new little brother now. If Nes was going somewhere, I was right there. Even if it was just Walmart for tomatoes, you’d still see me beside him holding my big Samsung tablet like it was translating for us lol. When he first came to America, he was still adjusting to English, while I was a kid speaking fast American English. Sometimes he didn’t understand me, and honestly sometimes I didn’t understand him either because he was used to Swahili. But somehow we always understood each other. Looking back, I don’t even know how our conversations worked, but they did. Since then, I’ve always called Nes and his brothers my big bros. Their parents even adopted me as the last born, and I’ll always be grateful for that. They mean a lot to me, and I’m excited to see where God takes Stacey and Nes in this new chapter. But most importantly, history will show this wedding had a flower boy… and that flower boy was me. #StaceygotfiNessed
Henry Nyansagare
Groomsman
Hello everyone, my name is Henry Nyasagare, also known as the guy who regularly eats out of Nes’ fridge and occasionally overstays his parking hours. I’ve been incredibly privileged to have a friend like Onesmus in my life. But to be honest, he’s much more than a friend to me, he’s an older brother, a mentor, and the person who taught me how to sing bass. Yes, that’s true. Without Nes, none of you would have the privilege of experiencing my beautiful voice. But enough about me. I’m writing this to testify to how well Nes and Stacey have taken care of me ever since I moved to Charlotte for school. Their kindness, generosity, and hospitality have meant more to me than they probably realize. I’m incredibly proud of both of them for taking such a big step as they commit their lives to each other, and I’m grateful to be part of this special moment. Even if my official role is to be the flower boy… #StaceygotfiNessed
Beily Nyaboga
Groomsman
Hi, I’m Beily Nyaboga, and I have the very important job of being the flower boy for this wedding—which, as you can imagine, makes me a key part of the entire operation. I know Nes & Stacey through church and different social settings, and I’ve had the chance to see firsthand how great they are together (and why this wedding was pretty much inevitable). From the start, it was obvious that they make an amazing team. Whether it’s the way they support each other, make each other laugh, or somehow manage to tag team and out diss anyone, they just work. Being around them is always a good time, and it’s easy to see how much they mean to each other. I’m really happy to be included in such a special day and honored to play my role—arguably one of the most important and memorable—walking down the aisle and setting the stage for everything that follows. All jokes aside, I’m excited to celebrate Nes & Stacey and be part of this moment with them and everyone here. They truly deserve all the happiness in the world, and I think we can all agree this is just the beginning of something great. #StaceygotfiNessed
Denley Moryas
Groomsman
First time I met Nes was years ago, when I was 6 years old. My family was visiting Raleigh. At that time, Nes was living in an apartment and was friends with my sister. He was also dating some random white girl. At that time, we had one little disagreement, which was that white people aren’t called “peach people,” and that’s how our friendship started. Onesmus is one of the funniest people I ever met, and one of the most welcoming people I’ve met. Like, when I was joining the choir, he didn’t care if you were a bad singer. Even if you were, he would help you realize those mistakes and help you improve. All I got to say is, thank you, Nes, for everything you’ve done for me and Stacey. Stacey felt like an unsolved puzzle piece before she met Nes. We knew that there was a missing puzzle piece, but we didn’t know what, until Nes came along, and we knew what was missing. Thank you, Nes, for making my sister happy and everyone else surrounding you.
Gebreen Obare
Groomsman
As my wonderful godparents, I want you to know just how much you make me feel loved and special. I may not have had the words to express how I felt when I first met you, but God knew, and so did my heart. You don’t just care for me; you go above and beyond with so much love, thoughtful gifts, and the kind of attention that makes me feel truly important and seen. Every time we spend time together, it feels like going on a new adventure. You always find fun and creative ways to teach me new things and create unforgettable experiences. Whether it’s a small surprise or a big one, you turn every moment into something exciting and full of joy. You don’t just give me things; you give me treasured memories, lots of laughter, and lessons that stay with me. Even when you’re far away, I can still feel your love and care. You always make sure I know how much I am loved, and that means everything to me. I feel so lucky to have godparents like you. Congratulations! I’m so happy for you, and I know your love will keep growing bigger and stronger. Thank you for always making my world brighter, warmer, and full of fun. #StaceygotfiNessed