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Melissa & James

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When should I RSVP by?

Answer

Friday, August 15th, but sooner is preferred.

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Can I bring a date?

Answer

We are not allowing additional plus-ones to our wedding, as we'd like to keep the guests list just to those who know us well. The name of every guest invited to attend was included on the invitation and is included on the RSVP page of this website.

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Am I allowed to bring my children?

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Unless they were invited, we kindly ask that you leave your kids at home. We want you to be able to enjoy a kid-free night!

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What's the dress code?

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Use your best judgment, but we'd like to see you all dressed up so you can feel fancy along with us! We just ask that you don't wear a white (or anything close to white) dress, obviously.

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What's for dinner?

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We are going a non-traditional route with food and will be offering a variety of stations including hot hors d'oeuvres, cheese table, meat carving station, pasta station, salad station, and a tailgating station. Dessert will be plentiful so be sure to save room!

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Will there be an open bar?

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Of course there will! The bar will be open throughout cocktail hour and the reception.

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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You can, but we please ask that you turn your flash off and be sure not to block our Photographer who will be taking professional pictures throughout the ceremony and the reception.

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Do you have a wedding hashtag?

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Sure do! It's #SpreadTheJAM2025. JAM as in "Jamie and Melissa"!

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