FAQs

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What is the dress code for the wedding?

Answer

We request a garden party-style attendance. Our wedding will be outdoors in early October; while it will likely be sunny, please plan accordingly in the event of chilly weather.

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Can I bring a date?

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While we usually live by "The more, the merrier," our venue has a strict limit on the number of guests. If a plus one was not listed on the invitation, we unfortunately cannot accommodate them.

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What time should I get there?

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The ceremony will start promptly at noon. Please arrive no later than 11:45 to ensure you are seated and ready to celebrate! (If you're like those in Spencer's family who are chronically late, arrive by 11).

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Who's the bride here?

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Aptly phrased! Spencer is nonbinary and uses they/them pronouns. While you may see them in a dress today, they are not a "bride." Please refrain from using feminine terms when describing Spencer today and in the future.

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Okay... so what SHOULD I call them?

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Spencer and Miguel ask that you call them "Newlyweds," "Husbands," or "Spouses." Thank you for your consideration!