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When is the RSVP deadline?When is the RSVP deadline?

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Please RSVP by Friday, September 19, 2025

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What is the dress code?What is the dress code?

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Black-tie preferred For men: Tuxedos or dark suits For women: Floor length gowns or formal cocktail dresses Please no costumes! We enjoy small nods to the holiday, but ask that you still follow the dress code.

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Can I bring a plus one?Can I bring a plus one?

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If you've received a plus one, they'll be specifically invited on the envelope of your invitation. Unfortunately, we do not have space to accommodate plus ones who have not been specifically invited. Thank you for understanding.

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Are children welcome?Are children welcome?

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As much as we love your little ones, this wedding is exclusively for adults, with the exception of any children in the wedding party.

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Will we be outside?Will we be outside?

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Weather permitting, the ceremony will be outdoors (on grass) behind Wild Carrot. The cocktail hour and reception will be indoors. If the St. Louis weather decides not to cooperate, the ceremony will be moved indoors.

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Where should we park?Where should we park?

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Uber and Lyft are readily available in the area. If you elect to drive to the ceremony, please park on either side of 39th street to allow residents of the neighborhood to park in front of their houses.

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What time should I arrive?What time should I arrive?

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Doors will open at 5:00 p.m. The ceremony will start promptly at 5:30 p.m. Please allow yourselves time to be seated prior to the start of the ceremony.

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What will the bridal party be wearing?What will the bridal party be wearing?

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Bridesmaids will be in varying shades of green. Groomsmen will be in tuxedos. Milo and Lady will be in their festive best.

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What if I have a dietary restriction?What if I have a dietary restriction?

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There will be vegetarian and gluten-free options for appetizers, main courses and sides. If you have a different dietary restriction, please let us know.

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What about trick or treating?What about trick or treating?

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One of our bridesmaids has graciously offered to connect any interested families with a great trunk or treat in town the day after the wedding (as well as with childcare options for the night of for out of town guests). Please reach out to us if you would like more information.