Our wedding will take place on Sunday, June 14th, 2026. We ask guests to arrive at 4:00 PM for a glass of champagne. The Ceremony will begin promptly at 4:30 PM, followed by a Cocktail Hour and Reception.
The Ceremony and Reception will both be held on site at the Bourne Mansion - 500 Montauk Highway, Oakdale, NY 11769.
The attire is black tie optional/formal. Gentlemen, think tuxedos or suits. Ladies, think evening gowns. Please note the Ceremony and Cocktail Hour will be held outdoors on a brick patio, weather permitting, so please choose footwear accordingly.
We’re so excited to celebrate with our nearest and dearest! Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate those listed on your invitation. If you received a plus one, they will appear under your name when you RSVP. If you’re unsure, please reach out to the bride and groom and we’ll be happy to clarify.
While we love your little ones, we’ve decided to make our wedding an adults-only celebration. We hope you enjoy a night off! If your invitation specifically includes children, they are of course welcome. Please reach out with any questions!
For guests staying at the recommended hotel, a shuttle service is provided to and from Bourne. You may also drive - valet parking is provided!
We’ve reserved a room block at the Courtyard by Marriott Long Island Islip. You will need to book through the link on the "Accommodations" page for the discounted rate. All bookings must be completed by May 13, 2026. There are also several accommodation options near Bourne should you choose not to stay at the recommended Hotel.
The gift we want most is your presence on our big day - but if you would like to contribute to our Honeymoon fund, House fund, or items we would love as we enter married life, please visit the "Registry" page.
Please RSVP by April 26, 2026.
We will miss you! Please RSVP "No" so we know not to expect you.