Q&A

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What should I wear to the wedding?

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No matter what, we're sure you'll look AMAZING! With that being said, we're asking our guests to wear cocktail attire - avoiding navy blue and white/ivory (for obvious reasons).

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What is cocktail attire?

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Ladies: Cocktail dresses, pant suits, dressier jumpsuits, etc. Gentlemen: Suits, blazer and slacks, ties, etc. No jeans please :) You can check out this site for examples of what a cocktail dress code looks like (men and women examples included!) https://www.theknot.com/content/cocktail-wedding-attire

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Are kids welcome?

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Although we adore your children, we’ve elected to limit our ceremony and reception to adults only. The only child in attendance will be the one in our wedding party.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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While we would love to have everyone attend our wedding, we will only be able to accommodate those listed on your invitation.

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How do I RSVP?

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Instead of traditional RSVP postcards, we've opted to have you RSVP digitally. The RSVP information is included in your invitations! If you are invited to our rehearsal dinner, an additional rehearsal details card is included in your invitation as well.

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Where is the Rehearsal Dinner information?

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We have chosen to have an intimate rehearsal dinner for our wedding party and immediate family. If you are invited to attend the Rehearsal Dinner, you will see the option to accept or decline when you RSVP!

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What if I didn't RSVP in time?

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If we do not receive your RSVP by the date provided (December 1st), it will automatically be marked as "Not Attending." We will miss celebrating with you, but it's important we provide our vendors with a final guest count within the time they have given us. Thank you for understanding!

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Please let us know of any dietary restrictions or allergies when RSVPing. When RSVPing through our website, there is a section to enter your restriction or allergy!

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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We have a block of rooms set up at DoubleTree in Leominster! Please see the Accommodations tab for the link and group code for the block! I know many guests are local, but we will be getting drinks at the bar when we return from the wedding as an unofficial after-party! You don't HAVE to stay the night to come back for drinks, but please drink responsibly if you'll be driving home after!

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What time should I arrive for the ceremony?

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Please arrive at Harrington Farm between 2:30 p.m. and 2:45 p.m. to allow ample time for parking and getting seated before the procession begins at 3:00 p.m. If you are taking the bus from DoubleTree in Leominster, the bus will depart the hotel at 2:00 p.m.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes, there is parking in the upper lot at the venue.

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Can I take photos during the ceremony?

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We kindly ask that phones and cameras be put away during our wedding ceremony so you can be present with us in this special moment. You will have plenty of opportunities to grab some pictures and videos at our reception!

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Are you registered? Where?

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We're fortunate to have all the household items we need, so instead of gifts, please consider contributing to our honeymoon fund to make our adventure even more special. The honeymoon fund is located under the Registry tab on our website. If you are more comfortable with a traditional registry, we do have some items listed on an Amazon registry, which can also be found at the bottom of the Registry tab on our website.

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What if I Want to Change My Meal Selection?

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If you would like to change your choice for dinner, feel free to either reach out directly to Becca or go through the RSVP process again, and you'll be able to re-select your meal option. Meal choices will be locked on Dec. 1st, 2025 once RSVPs are due, so please be sure to update prior to that date.

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What type of food will be served at the wedding?

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We'll be serving hors d'oeuvres at cocktail hour followed by a sit-down dinner with a choice of entree. You can select your choice of meal when you RSVP.