FAQs

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When is the RSVP deadline?

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September 14, 2025. We would appreciate your response as soon as possible to give us a little less stress in our wedding planning. Thanks!

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How do I RSVP?

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We’re not going green, just working smarter not harder by using online RSVPs. Follow the information on your invitation or select the RSVP tab on this website.

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What should I wear?

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Not your birthday suit! Semi-Formal but also casual and comfortable but it is our wedding! This mean’s guys ask your wife if it’s acceptable. Ties are very much optional. For those challenged by this check out this link: https://www.theknot.com/content/what-to-wear-semi-formal#what-to-wear-to-semi

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Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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Your guess is as good as ours! The plan is for an outdoor ceremony (fingers crossed).

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How do I get to and from the wedding venue?

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o Option A: Take the shuttle to and from the Hotel. First Shuttle will leave promptly at 4:00 pm. There will be a second shuttle to the venue at approximately 4:40 pm if you missed the first one, however, you will miss our ceremony. Shuttles will leave the venue to return to the Hotel at 9:30 pm and 10:00 pm. We anticipate the second shuttle to be a full bus with our guests who booked with in our room block, if you booked outside the room block, we ask that you take the first shuttle at 9:30 pm. o Option B: Drive your car and use your phone’s GPS to get to The Valley at Neshanic, 2301 S. Branch Rd, Branchburg, NJ 08853 o Option C: Take an Uber or Lyft to The Valley at Neshanic, 2301 S. Branch Rd, Branchburg, NJ 08853 (Store this information if you are bad at time awareness and miss the shuttle)

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Where can I stay for the wedding if I live far away or plan to party my ass off?

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We have a Hotel Block with a shuttle at the Bridgewater Marriott. Rooms must be booked by October 3, 2025 to qualify for the block rate. https://mi.bookmarriott.com/proposals/view/ae38d47f-dd8a-4ca7-a790-2abcc6a8cf07

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What time should I arrive for the ceremony if I am not taking the shuttle from the Hotel?

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4:15 will leave you ample time to scurry from the parking lot to the ceremony at the gazebo located just off the parking lot.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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If your plus one’s name is on the invite, then yes, if not then no. Unfortunately, the venue is limited in size and unable to accommodate additional romantic encounters.

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What if I have food allergies or dietary restrictions?

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Suck it up buttercup! (Just kidding) There is a question on the RSVP for the reception that will send us any concerns. Please, fill that out so we don’t forget about it. You can also call us with any questions and we will figure it out with the venue.

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I didn’t see my kids on the invitation, can they come?

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Unfortunately, other than our gaggle of nieces and nephews, we will not have seats at the venue for kids.

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What if I have a song I’d love to dance to at the reception?

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There is a field in the RSVP for that. We have the right to pass judgement on all guests musical tastes.