FAQs

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes. There is plenty of parking.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Arrival is 3pm, ceremony will begin at 3:15pm

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Are kids welcome?

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We love your little ones, but our wedding will be an adult only. The only children in attendance will be those in the wedding party. Please plan accordingly - we would hate to miss you.

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Is there a dress code?

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Cowboy boots recommended but not required. Cocktail/Formail Attire please. We are going for an elegant celebratory country vibe. Think suit & ties (or dress shirts with vest/blazer) for gentlemen, and cocktail dresses, midi dresses, elegant jumpsuits, or dressy separates for ladies. No tuxedos or floor-length gowns required, but feel free to dress it up!

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What will the weather be like this time of year?

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NJ Fall weather in October. Famers Almanac for Oct 2026 say cooler Fall weather with a chance of rain. We are hoping to have the ceremony outside if the weather allows. Will update this as we get closer (Feb/26)

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Where are the ceremony & Reception?

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Both are located at the Patterson Family Barn.

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Will the ceremony be indoor/outdoor?

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We are hoping to have the ceremony outside in the garden. However that is weather dependent. If there is inclement weather, it will be inside.

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Can I bring a date?

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Unfortunately, we have a strict guest list. Our celebration is strictly RSVP only. We will only be able to accomodate those on your wedding invitation.