FAQs
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Where is the wedding?
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We will be getting married at the Barn at Bull Meadow in Concord NH. The address is 63 Bog Road, Concord NH 03303. This is a newly constructed barn with an indoor or outdoor ceremony space, outdoor cocktail space, and indoor reception.
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What if I don't RSVP in time?
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To help us with planning, we kindly ask that you RSVP by September 1st, 2025. If you are having trouble RSVPing, please contact the bride or groom. Unfortunately, if we do not receive your RSVP by the deadline noted on the invitation, we will have to mark you as "not attending". We will miss celebrating with you, but we do need to finalize the guest count for the venue and our vendors. We cannot make any exceptions. We hope you understand!
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Can I bring a plus one?
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Our wedding is strictly invitation only. If you have a plus one indicated on your formal invitation, then you are welcome to bring a plus one! Unfortunately, we cannot accommodate other extra guests due to venue capacity.
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Are kids invited?
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We would love for you to use this night as a night off! Although we adore your little ones, we have decided to keep our wedding an adults-only event. The only exception will be our immediate family. We hope you understand and enjoy a special night without the kiddos!
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Is there a dress code? What do I wear?
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We would love to see our family and friends dress to impress! We are requesting Formal Attire, this includes floor length dresses, and suits with a tie! With our wedding being in the fall we recommend embracing the fall color palette of reds, oranges, greens, and browns. Our wedding party will be wearing a forest/sage green shade.
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Will the Ceremony and Reception be inside or outside?
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Both! As long as the weather is on our side, the ceremony and cocktail hour will be held outside and the reception will be held inside.
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How does seating work?
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The ceremony will be open seating; pick a seat, not a side! We are all family now. However, please allow for the immediate family to have the first few aisles. For the reception, we will carefully arrange tables so our guests are sat with those they know (or their plus one or partner).
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What do I do if I am late for the ceremony?
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Please arrive between 2:30-2:45pm so there is time to mingle and find a seat. If you happen to be late, someone will be there to let you know if they are still allowing guests in or if you will need to wait until the ceremony is over. If that happens, you can still attend the reception, so hang tight, and we will see you at the reception! Thank you for understanding!
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Since there will be alcohol, what do we do about driving?
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We DO NOT want anyone drinking and driving. We will have a shuttle to and from the Courtyard by Marriott in Concord. We recommend using rideshare apps like Lyft and Uber for transportation if you plan on drinking! Make sure you pick up your car from the parking lot the next morning by 10:00 AM if you plan to leave your vehicle overnight.
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Can I take pictures during the wedding?
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Our ceremony will be an "unplugged ceremony." This means no phones/devices! We ask that all our guests follow this. We have two hired photographer professionals who will take photos throughout the ceremony, and we would like to avoid any phones or devices in the background. However, we strongly encourage our guests to take pictures and videos during the reception, post them on social media, and tag us! You can use the hashtag #WalkerDownTheAisle
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Are there any colors I should avoid wearing?
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Please refrain from wearing colors traditionally reserved for the bride, such as white, ivory, or cream. Guests wearing these colors may be subjected to being sprayed with red wine.