FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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October 24th, 2026

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Since our ceremony will begin at 4PM we ask that you arrive no later than 3:30PM! We will have welcome drinks prior to the ceremony, so you can settle in and find a seat before the festivities begin.

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Can I bring a date or plus-one?

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Due to space constraints, we cannot give every guest a plus-one and can only accommodate named guests on the invitation. We appreciate your understanding.

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Can I change my RSVP?

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If you need to change your RSVP, please contact us directly at 919-986-9795.

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Is there parking at The Bradford?

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Yes, there is free parking! We want everyone to consume responsibly! If you plan to leave your car overnight, please be courteous of the Bradford's Sunday event and pick up your car no later than 9AM the next day.

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Do Ubers and Lyfts come out to the Bradford?

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Since Uber + Lyft’s get to choose which rides they take, they will normally drop off at The Bradford, however, it can be challenging to secure a ride at the end of the evening. We will be providing transportation from the Bradford to downtown Raleigh at the end of the night.

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

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Transportation will be provided for hotel guests to the Bradford! Please see the transportation page for more details. If you are not staying at one of the hotels, we recommend taking an Uber/Lyft to/from the venue if you plan on drinking. There is free parking available at the Bradford. We will be providing transportation for everyone at the end of the reception from the Bradford to downtown Raleigh.

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Is there a dress code?

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Our wedding attire is black tie optional or formal. For men, this means your preference of a tuxedo or dark suit. For women a formal full length dress or jumpsuit is preferred. For more details, visit the dress code section.

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Are kids welcome?

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While we love kids, we’ve decided to have an adults-only celebration. Thank you for making arrangements.

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Will your wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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Weather pending, our ceremony will be held outdoors in a grassy area. Cocktail hour will take place in a tented courtyard. Dinner and the reception will be held indoors.

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Will there be a photographer or videographer?

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Yes. We plan to have both for the full day. Especially during the ceremony, we would love all of our guest to be present. This means please turning off your phones and not taking pictures during the ceremony.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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When you RSVP, please let us know if you have any dietary restrictions, and we’ll do our best to accommodate them.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Please visit the travel page of our website for all recommended hotel information!

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Are you registered? Where?

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We've registered with Williams Sonoma and Royal Gifts & Fine China. Please see our registry page!

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Are there recommended activities?

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Yes! Please see the Thing To Do section of the website.