FAQs

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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The ceremony at the Santa Barbara Courthouse will start at 12 pm. Please arrive 20-25 minutes early, as we will begin on time.

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Will it be indoors or outdoors?

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Both the ceremony and reception will be indoors.

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Is there a dress code?

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We invite you to wear elevated, flowy silhouettes in vibrant or romantic hues. Midi or maxi dresses with movement (pleats, ruffles, soft draping are perfect). Lightweight suits in neutrals or summer tones are encouraged for gentlemen. If you have any questions regarding dress code, please reach out!

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Are kids welcome?

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While we love your little ones, this will be an adults-only celebration.

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Can I bring a date?

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In order to keep our celebration intimate, invitations are limited to named guests only.

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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We kindly request that guests not take photos during the event. Please make sure cell phones and devices are powered OFF while we share our "I do's". We have professional photographers to capture every moment so we can unplug and enjoy! After the ceremony, feel free to take as many photos and videos as you'd like.

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What should we expect after the ceremony?

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We can’t wait to celebrate with you! Our intimate reception will include dinner and drinks at Convivo Restaurant & Bar. We look forward to sharing a wonderful evening.

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes. The drinks are on us, but the hangover is on you! Please bring cash to tip our lovely bartenders. *Please drink responsibly*

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Will there be parking?

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There will be a complimentary valet service at Convivo Restaurant & Bar. Please bring cash if you wish to tip valet.

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When is the RSVP deadline?

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Please RSVP by June 18th, 2026.

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What happens if I don't RSVP in time?

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Please RSVP by June 18, 2026; otherwise, it will be marked as "not attending". We would love to celebrate with you. However, we have to provide an exact guest count to our vendors and cannot accept late RSVP's. (This will mean you will not be allowed at our special day. There will be no seating, food, or drinks for you. We hope you understand.)

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What if I can't make it?

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You will be missed! If you cannot attend our wedding, please respond with "Will not be attending". If you have already RSVP'd "Attending," please notify Vanessa or Sisco as soon as possible.

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Do we have a wedding registry?

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Your presence at our wedding is a gift in itself, but if you feel inclined to give, please visit our "Registry" tab!