We're old. We're 40(ish). We don't really need things. We are not requesting gifts but if you feel a social obligation to give a gift please donate to our honeymoon fund via Zelle or Venmo. Zelle: Timhartnett14@gmail.com Venmo: @Timothy-Hartnett
Despite TJ's equestrian background, TJ will not be riding a horse (nor an Elephant) during the Baraat. Please find Zachary Ratliff during the wedding and ask him to show you pictures of what happens when TJ gets within 1,000 feet of a horse.
Suit, Dress, Sari, Lehenga, Kurta, whatever makes you comfortable and feels appropriate.