FAQs

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So which is event is the REAL wedding?

Answer

They're both the real wedding! Or perhaps neither is, on its own. The two halves of this marriage each represent an important component of what it means to us to be married. Our wedding is both a celebration of our relationship and a blessing for our future. Of course, marriage might mean something different to you, and we expect that you will interpret the proceedings in line with your own views. Instead of fighting this, we encourage it! Which is the real wedding? What do both ceremonies mean? We hope you will feel free to creatively interpret that as you see fit.

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When should I RSVP by?

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Since the wedding is in two parts, we will be sending some important information to only the people who have RSVP'd to that particular event. If you think it is likely that you will be able to attend an event, we encourage you to RSVP yes to it so we know to send you the relevant communications. It's fine to change your RSVP closer to the date if something comes up, though of course we hope that you'll give us as much notice as possible for catering and other aspects of the planning.

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Is there a dress code?

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We will include more information on this in our more specific communications about each event, but here are some broad suggestions: - For the harvest ceremony we encourage smart/dressy casual to semi-formal attire that you can dance in, ideally in fall colors (yellow, orange, red, brown) - For the bloom ceremony we encourage semi-formal to formal attire, keeping in mind that the wedding will be held outdoors

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Are you registered? Where?

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The registry is coming soon! The link will be emailed to you and posted here when available.