FAQs

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Are children allowed at the reception?

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While we love your little ones, our reception will be an adults-only celebration. Teenage children may attend if they are specifically included on your RSVP. If RSVP guest status indicates declined, please do not update. Thank you so much for your understanding—we can’t wait to celebrate with you!

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What should I wear to each event!?

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Dressing for an Indian wedding is all about celebrating color, elegance, and tradition. Women wear sarees, lehengas, or salwar suits. Men wear sherwanis, kurtas, or tailored suits. Don’t be afraid of bold colors, embroidery, and statement jewelry. If you’re unsure what styles look like, check out the visual guide in the link below for inspiration! Please reserve the color red for the bride during the wedding morning. COPY AND PASTE WEB LINK INTO URL. https://docs.google.com/document/d/1sHzfZOvJFyGGBGU9fqDYuQl0_SXMawBOKY_gZ2Z6_G4/edit?usp=sharing

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Where can I purchase or rent Indian clothing?

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Here are some websites where you can purchase Indian outfits: www.amazon.com (search lehenga and Sharara for women and kurta for men) www.houseofindya.com www.azafashions.com www.lashkaraa.com www.kalkifashion.com www.sarisandthings.com (allows for rentals) Indian clothing store to visit: NYRAA (Manhattan, rent or buy. By appointment) Pernia's pop up nyc (Manhattan, kinda expensive) Miss India (Edison NJ) Manyavar (Edison NJ) Regards Wholesale (spotswood, NJ) Regards Wholesale (Copiague, Long island) Boomie (app that lets you rent from users closet!)

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What is Graha Shanti?

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Graha Shanti is a traditional Hindu pre-wedding ceremony that focuses on blessings, peace, and positive energy before the big day. In Hindu belief, “grah” refers to the planets, and “shanti” means peace. The ceremony is performed to seek harmony from the planetary energies and to pray for a smooth, joyful, and obstacle-free marriage. It’s essentially a spiritual way of starting the wedding celebrations with good vibes and gratitude.

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What is Haldi?

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In this ceremony, guests apply a paste made of turmeric, sandalwood, and rosewater to the bride and groom. Traditionally, turmeric is believed to purify, protect, and bring good luck. It’s also known for giving the skin a natural glow — which is why you’ll often see the couple glowing (and very yellow!) afterward. Haldi is usually one of the most fun and playful events of the wedding celebrations. There’s music, laughter, and sometimes a bit of friendly mischief as loved ones smear turmeric on the couple and shower them with blessings.

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What is Sangeet?

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The Sangeet is an evening of music, singing, and dancing where both families come together to celebrate the couple. Over time, it has evolved into a full-on party — often with choreographed dance performances by friends and family, heartfelt speeches, and lots of joyful energy. It’s a wonderful way for everyone to bond before the wedding day, especially when families are meeting for the first time. You’ll see colorful outfits, big smiles, and a dance floor that stays busy all night.