Our Wedding Party
Sharon Sanchez
Mother of the Bride
I am so very happy that Shilloy has found a loving, sensitive and perceptive man in Ruben who appreciates her many good qualities including kindness and generosity, her strengthen of character to face life’s trials head on with dignity and wisdom. Wishing you both a world of happiness.
Elidia Lomeli
Mother of the Groom
Ruben is my youngest son, and I am so happy he has found an amazing companion like Shilloy. I knew I liked her the moment I met her, but when I saw her independence and drive to continue her education, I knew she was the one for my son. I am so lucky to have Shilloy as my daughter and Jazmin as my granddaughter.
William "Bill" Sanchez
Father of the Bride
Wow, I am also very happy for Shilloy and Ruben. Being with Ruben I have seen how close knit he is with his family and the love he has for his mother. Shilloy also sees these qualities in Ruben. Shilloy was raised to embrace the family unit. What a day it's going to be uniting both families.
Bill Padgett (In Memoriam)
Father of the Groom
In loving memory of my dad, Bill, who passed away on May 22, 2017. My dad was always there for me, no matter what. He taught me the importance of hard work, determination, and kindness. He always put others before himself and had a heart of gold. I miss you more than words can say. But I know you will always be with me in spirit, especially on my wedding day. I know you adored Shilloy and are so happy for us! Thank you for everything you did for me and for being the best dad in the world. I love you.
Jazmin Heath Villarreal
Matron of Honor
Not only did I luck out with being born to the most amazing mama, I now have the privilege of being her matron of honor on one of her biggest days. Without giving too much of my speech away, I’ll say this- I couldn’t have handpicked a better man to become my mom’s husband and my stepdad. Ruben has watched me grow into the woman and mother I am today. So much of who I am because of my mom, but honestly, I see a lot of Ruben in me as well. I feel extremely blessed to be a part of their day, and even though he’s been in my life for over a decade, I’m so excited to merge our families officially! Not many women can say they’ve grown up with their mom and built a solid mother-daughter relationship and a beautiful friendship. I’m so honored she chose me to play such an important role in her day. I can not wait to celebrate their love with everyone, and I’m so excited to see everyone’s beautiful faces. <3
Jack Lomeli
Best Man
I'm Jack Ruben's youngest. I'm so glad I get to experience two absolutely amazing people on such a special day. I've never seen my dad so happy. Shilloy has been a light in our family since I could remember, I love you both, and I couldn't be happier to celebrate with you two on your big day
Amanda Enayati
Bridesmaid
Shilly and Mandy. Our sisterhood has spanned four decades, starting in LA, weaving through New York City, around the country (hell, several countries!), and now fittingly, back to LA. Our bond has deepened and evolved with layers and layers of stories and adventures and so much pure, unfiltered joy. Why speak a single solitary word when the slightest gesture tells you everything? We grew up — and are still growing up — together, and there is no place on earth I would rather be than by your side on your special day.
Mike Pickford
Groomsman
Ruben and I have been friends for over 40 years. He is like the brother I never had. I have always wanted the best for him. However, since he has been with Shilloy, I have witnessed his life getting better and his heart softening. I believe Shiloy has brought out the best in him. I am so happy they met and excited about their union together.
Bineeta Battu
Bridesmaid
Hi, I am Bineeta. Shilloy and I have been friends for over 30 years and have shared so much love, laughter, and adventures. She has been part of so many of my best memories. I am so honored and excited to be part of her bride tribe and to bear witness to her marrying the love of her life, Ruben. I can't wait to celebrate the two of them on their special day. Love you both!! Forever Friends, Soul Sisters from Other Misters I gotchyuuuuu!!!!! xxooxx
Craig Waggoner
Groomsman
I'm so happy for both of you, and the relationship is made in Heaven.
Nina Lomeli Sandavol
Bridesmaid
I'm Nina, Ruben's eldest daughter. I have never seen my dad as happy as he has been since Shilloy has come into his life. We all are grateful for the loving, caring, and positivity Shilloy has brought to our family. Thank you for including me on this beautiful day celebrating the love you two share.
Ara Ajounian
Groomsman
When Ruben sent me the picture of the ring in the box I was at the table having Christmas dinner and I almost fell off my seat! To know that you both are getting marred is a great joy to see two amazing people joining as one. Thank you so much for including me to be a part of your special day. Love you both.
Jordan Lomeli
Bridesmaid
My name is Jordan, and I am the youngest of Lomeli's daughters. Shilloy has been a part of my life and my family for over a decade. She has brought warmth and a vibrant spirit to our family that we never knew we needed. I feel blessed to have her officially join our family and to stand beside her as she and my father finally join hands and say I do.
Kirk West
Groomsman
Ruben, you are an honorable man of integrity with a fantastic sense of humor and a true compassion for your fellows, with a contagious zest for life. Shilloy, you are such a kind and considerate person, as you always welcome all into your home and are the ultimate host. You and Ruben seem to be true soulmates. I am so honored you included me on your special day.
Emma Sandavol
Junior Bridesmaid
I'm Emma, the first granddaughter. I am excited to be part of grandpa and manpaws wedding. I enjoy all the time I spend with them, and this is another great experience watching them get married.
Scott Singer
Groomsman
I'm Scott, Rubens's favorite Jiu-Jitsu training partner. I remember the first time I meet Shilloy. We all went on a double date to Anaheim for the Rhonda Rousey fight. At dinner, the girls left the table. I told Ruben, " Your gonna marry that Girl"! We've been to dinners n concerts together over the years. It's always been a great time. I love you both to pieces. I am honored to count you both as great friends.
Lydia Sandavol
Flower Girl
Lydia is the 2nd granddaughter and enjoys all the singing and dancing Manpaw and Grandpa do with her.
Aliyah Sandoval
Flower Girl
Aliyah is the 3rd granddaughter and loves to do all the physical activity with grandpa and cousin Odin. Guaranteed Odin and Aliyah will be the life of the party and dancing the night away with grandpa and manpaw!
Odin Ruben Rapp
Ring Bearer
My name is Odin, Shilloy is my Man-paw, and Ruben is my Grampa. I am their first grandson and the apple of my Grampa Ruben’s eye. He looks forward to one day teaching me Brazilian Jujitsu and how to ride dirt bikes. As for Man-paw Shilloy, she loves to dance and sing songs in Spanish with me. They teach me so much, and I love them both endlessly.
Kaedon Ones Villarreal
Ring Bearer
Hi family and friends! I'm Kaedon, and I'm the youngest grandchild in the family. I will be six months old by the time we celebrate true love! Big boy over here :) My mom is Jazmin, the matron of honor, and I'm so excited to walk with her down the aisle while I joyously wait to see my favorite person, my "Lita," walk down the aisle. I know I'm so young, but if I know my mom, I know she'll have millions of pictures for me to look at when I'm older. And I'll remember that on this day, time stood still while the room was filled with so much beauty and love, and it'll inspire me daily.
Sean Sanchez
Usher
I have had the pleasure of seeing my sister grow and mature since meeting Ruben. Not only has she achieved career and professional fulfillment in doing what she was meant to do on this earth and what drives her heart and spirit, but she has found a partner in Ruben who is compassionate and understanding and helps brings out the best in her. Of course, I know everyone wants the perfect wedding day. Still, I am confident that Shilloy and Ruben will have a fruitful, successful long-term marriage supporting, loving, and caring for one another. Such a precious and wonderful thing. Very happy for them both.
Aaron Sanchez
Usher
I’m Aaron James, Shilloy's youngest brother, and I want to congratulate Ruben and my sister. I believe they bring out the best in each other. Knowing Ruben and how he is with my sister, I know she has a great guy who loves her and would do anything for her. I’m so blessed to call Ruben my brother-in-law.I I love you guys so much ❤️