We are getting married!

We are gathered to celebrate love and commitment. From the moment we crossed paths, we knew we had discovered something truly special. Together, we have shared our hopes, our joys, and our struggles, finding balance, peace, and the perfect match in each other. We’ve found the partner to get through this thing called life— and that’s a mighty long time. As we take this next step together, we are excited to face life side by side. We can't wait to begin this forever, surrounded by all of you—our cherished friends and family. Thank you for being part of our journey. Here's to a lifetime filled with love, laughter, and unforgettable memories! Shenekia and Daaron

After a weekend of dating disasters that could’ve been a bad rom-com, I showed up to work ready to vent. My coworker/ Big Bro Vence, listened and suggested I meet his brother-in-law. Naturally, my PTSD made me ask, "What's wrong with him?" and "What does he look like?" He assured me the guy was solid and had a "pretty boy vibe," so we arranged a "casual" meet-up. Spoiler alert: it was anything but casual. The first attempt was on Juneteenth, but he flaked. The second time, we had a riveting discussion about green beans at a buffet—peak romance, right? He didn't even bother to ask for my name, but he looked like Rick Fox, so I couldn't be too upset. Our third encounter was at a retirement party. After what felt like an eternity mingling with his siblings (all super cool), Daaron finally made his move; well, Lea moved him over to where I was sitting. Once we finally had some one-on-one time, everything changed. He ensured I had food (major points!), we danced, and we even took a family photo. I thought, "He's fine, chivalrous, and loves his family, but... is he even ready to date?" That night, we checked in before bed, and the following morning, we met for breakfast at First Watch. Daaron shared he wasn't sure about officially dating but genuinely wanted to keep hanging out. I was on board and knew in my knower that he wouldn't hurt me. He was different. We had a blast over the next couple of months—talking, dinners, bowling, and museum outings. It felt like a mash-up of the movies Just Wright and Daddy's Little Girls, except for the break-ups and kids are young men. During a check-in with Vence, he suggested we "bring a little heat." He literally decided to host a BBQ to see if I'd get an invite. About 35 to 45 minutes later, Daaron called, asking about my plans for Saturday. I grinned and said, "Nothing!"—and that became my first and only lie. The romantic comedy continued with deep conversations, running errands, cooking, vineyard visits, concerts, comedy shows, family and friend events, and even rap sessions in the car. They say absence makes the heart grow fonder, and they were right. After a conference and a solo trip to NOLA, I returned, and we attended a party together. On the way back, Daaron shared his vision for us. He began with, "I thought I would never do this again," and concluded with a heartfelt, "There's no way I can't do this." Surrounded by a small group of family and friends, Daaron asked if I would spend the rest of my life with him, and I gave my best, "YES!" Here we are, doing "THIS!" This beautiful journey to the alter with two imperfect people who found a perfect partner to spend the rest of life with. A partner who is strong in the areas that the other is weak makes us the perfect pair. A partner who rakes and makes the books, splits tasks, picks you up, holds you accountable, and, most importantly, shares your faith and desire to grow in Christ. Thanks for reading along and coming along for the journey. We give credit to Vence for letting God use him!