Wear your "Best and Brightest." AKA Fun, Colorful, Patterned cocktail attire. We may be a fall wedding, but leave the jewel tones at home! Or just wear something that you love that makes you feel confident.
Please arrive 20-30 minutes before the ceremony so everyone can be seated before we begin. There will be prelude music beginning at 12:00.
We’re having open seating for the ceremony. Pick a seat, not a side — you’re here for both grooms!
Not at the ceremony. Please put 'em away so our lovely photography team can do their job! But at the reception and cocktail hour there will be QR codes at each table so that you can upload all of the memories you make to a digital wedding album for us!
Yes! Both will take place at the Graham Mill so guests won’t need to travel between events.
Our ceremony will be indoors. After the ceremony we will relocate to the greenhouse out back for cocktail hour while our wedding team flips the indoor space for the party.
Yes! We will have a mimosa bar and plenty of beer and wine! Sunday Funday!
We chose to work with the Smokehouse at Steve's for the reception because BBQ lunches are our roots, they are fabulous to work with and also, we love supporting local business -- check them out they are just next door! Our mains will be chopped pork BBQ & sliced Brisket. If you do not partake in the hooved beasts or beasts at all we will have options to select "chicken" or "vegan" and BBQ chicken or a vegan main will be provided.
If your invitation includes a plus one, they will appear when you RSVP.
If you are traveling we recommend the hotels listed on our Travel page. Room blocks in Durham and Mebane will be available.
Absolutely — bring your best moves. 2000s girly pop & queer icons dance party!
The party will wrap up around 6:30 PM. To be continued in Durham at the Velvet Hippo for those who can join us!
Your presence is the greatest gift! If you’d like to give something, visit our registry page on the website.