We love you kids. We really do! But we want our wedding to be your night off! We hope this doesn't create a hassle for you as we just want you to relax and have fun with us! But we don't wants kids to stop you from coming, so please let us know!
If your invitation says "and Guest", then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.
We would love to to see our family and friends get dressed up with us! For the evening, we are requesting a semi-formal dress code.